Decades ago, when I was barely out of diapers, I started taking annual (sometimes twice-yearly) prayer retreats at the Abbey of Gethsemani in the hills of central Kentucky. It’s a silent Trappist monastery, and it’s been a boon to my prayer life. A lifeline, sometimes.
It’s also been a boon to my writing life. Once I’ve checked in and been immersed in and surrounded by silence (interrupted only by the seven-times-daily prayer services) for the first twenty-four hours or so, my mind seems to come alive (hold the jokes, please). My creativity spikes. My journal pages begin to fill with thoughts, ideas, questions, answers, doodles, drawings, and more. That journal, in fact, is a fascinating study: Whereas in the course of a usual week I might journal a few pages, my four-day or five-day silent retreats at the abbey routinely result in dozens of pages. While I eschew “work” during my prayer retreat, the combination of silence and solitude tend to ignite internal conversations with God, which in turn, I think, produce a level of creativity and originality that generally escapes me the rest of the year.
To choose just one example, halfway through a 2013 or 2014 prayer retreat, I wrote a question in my journal. Years before, I had fashioned a one-year flip calendar for my own use, pairing a verse from the King James Version of the Bible and a quote from Shakespeare each day, since both of those treasures of English literature were produced in the same period, same country, and same city, by people who knew each other. Also years earlier, I had tried to sell this brilliant (if I do say so myself, and I just did) creation as a gift product, without success. So, on this particular retreat, after a few days of solitude and silence, I wrote in my journal: “Why haven’t I ever considered pitching my Bible-and-Shakespeare calendar as a devotional?” Soon after returning home from my retreat, I emailed my agent (see: Laube, Steve) and before long, had offers from multiple publishers. See how easy that was? [Agent Steve made me put this link to the first pages of the finished book so you can take a look. He is so pushy sometimes.]
Now, maybe that particular idea would’ve occurred to me even if I hadn’t been prayerful and silent for a few days. But such flashes of insight happen so often, so abundantly, in the silence of a prayer retreat that I think probably not.
In my experience, silence creates space for thought. For reflection. For creativity. For God. And, though God sometimes does speak into (or in spite of) our busy and noisy lives, He seems to speak more—and more clearly—in the silence.
So, can silence make you a better writer? Can it create space in your life, in your days, for thought? For reflection? For creativity? For God?
Why not find out?
Encouraging.
Question!
Can an individual who has not cleared your hurdles get their one liners in a flip calendar. I post an original one everyday on my Facebook page. I have 2,500 more. II thought trying to get them printed.
I completed two devotional books. Now approaching 1,500 readers on my Facebook page so you will talk to me.
Now concentrating on my platform.
I’ve tried to reach Lifeway thru a denominational friend . No success. Any suggestions on any of the above?
Frank, hurdles? What hurdles? I ain’t got no hurdles. And there’s no magic number of Facebook friends to get me to talk to you. Shoot, ain’t I talking right now? I think I am. As for your questions, as my experience might attest, selling a flip calendar is tough; many are created in-house by the publisher. As for reaching any publishing house these days, there are many like you who want to make contact, but editors are swamped with such outreaches, which is why they mostly rely on agents. So that may suggest an area of focus for you.
That is so true, Bob! It amazes me as again and again God steps into our world and makes Himself known. Whether an unexpected monetary gift that ended up being the amount needed for a new stove and new fridge (appliances that we had no idea were about to break simultaneously) wisdom about ministry and relationships, or that character motivation that had been eluding me … until I prayed about it! He is so gracious with us. Yes, a silent walk in the forest around the camp where we live and quiet communion with Him have brought both peace in times of trouble, a firm resolve for difficult tasks, and a jump-start of creativity.Time and again I have seen it happen. So amazing!
Hi Bob, thank you for sharing this.
I have gone from in recent years being part of a family of seven to now being mostly on my own. I’ve struggled with being on my own this year, but at the same time have understood it’s to be a year of retreating and writing.
Your blog has encouraged me to make the most of the rest of this year on my own – being blessed by the opportunity for silence. It also reminds me how important it will be to prioritise mini prayer and writing retreats for myself in the future.
All the best with your devotional. 🙂
Beautiful !
Great post, Bob!