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The Art of the Soft-Sell

By Dan Balowon April 14, 2021
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“How you sell is more important than what you sell.”
– Andy Paul (author, speaker, podcaster)

Whether you are traditionally published, self-published, desire-to-be-published, or whatever other combination resides between traditional and self-publishing, you are involved in the lively art of selling.

Trying to convince an agent to represent you? Trying to convince a publisher to publish your book? Trying to convince people to buy your book?

You are selling.

And if you take the above quote from Andy Paul at face value, you need to pay attention to how you sell. It could make all the difference.

I can almost guarantee most of you reading today are uncomfortable with this topic. Many are wordsmiths, editors, creatives, introverts, and more than likely Christians who desire to represent Jesus well.

“Sell” can be a four-letter word with all the negative connotations you can imagine accompanying it.

Today I am going to focus on only one aspect of the author experience: getting a reader to buy your book. 

Selling. Harumph.

Without yelling “Buy my book!” over and over in your social media or other places, you can sell well, so it doesn’t make you feel like a “sell-out.”  Here are some principles that shouldn’t be in conflict with your personality, ethics, or faith-walk:

  • Always have someone else tell how great you are and how great your book is. Self-aggrandizement is not good to observe. Don’t even dabble with “If I say so myself …” Over time, it will corrode your soul.
  • When you communicate about your book, humbly focus on the benefits to the reader, leaving out adjectives and hyperbole. A benefit is what will be helpful to the reader. Your book is not 250 pages of spectacular writing and insight from a brilliant mind; it is something to contribute to another person’s life. Focus on that.
  • Remind yourself the reason you wrote the book in the first place, so when asked, you give a simple, human reason. The more publishing jargon and platitudes you spout, the first bullet point comes into play. “I just wanted to help people,” is far better than “Everyone needs to read this amazing book given to me by God!”
  • Memorize a couple passages from your book that you use to illustrate key points. They might be poignant stories or anecdotes. Have them ready as a sample of what to expect if someone bought your book. Show, don’t tell.
  • Never, ever be in a hurry to get someone to buy your book. Yes, you are excited. But these days, books generally start selling slowly and, if you are fortunate, gain momentum over a period of time. View your “selling” process as long-term. The harder you push, the more impatient you are, the less effective you will be. Remember, you might want to sell another book in the future, so don’t wear out your audience with your aggressiveness.
  • Finally, help someone else sell their book. There’s something rather attractive and compelling about someone who does this. Bookselling is not a one-way street.

I think the art of “soft selling” is consistent with one’s Christian faith. You don’t puff yourself up, you consider others more important, and you have genuine concern for the needs of others.

Do these things, and you will feel good about the process. Mainly because you can repeat it, and it works!

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How to Find a Good Critique Group with Eva Marie Everson

By Thomas Umstattd, Jr.on April 13, 2021
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It is hard to read the label when you are standing inside the bottle. This is why almost all successful authors are in a writers group. Whether it was J.R.R. Tolkien and C.S. Lewis sitting in an English pub talking about fantasy stories or a socially distant mastermind group meeting on Zoom, writers write better when they are in community with other writers.  Now, many beginning writers are not in …

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How to Find a Good Critique Group with Eva Marie Everson

By Thomas Umstattd, Jr.on April 13, 2021
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It is hard to read the label when you are standing inside the bottle. This is why almost all successful authors are in a writers group. Whether it was J.R.R. Tolkien and C.S. Lewis sitting in an English pub talking about fantasy stories or a socially distant mastermind group meeting on Zoom, writers write better […]
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Your Reader

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon April 8, 2021
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Not long ago, I met with a group of publishing professionals who broached the topic of audience. A couple of them discussed how their company envisions their reader. They went so far as to identify the reader by the name they had given her. They knew her age and discussed preferences that would dictate whether she would like a specific book. As a writer, perhaps you would be helped by working to …

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Book Launch Secrets Webinar Replay

By Thomas Umstattd, Jr.on April 6, 2021
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A couple of weeks ago, Thomas Umstattd Jr. and Steve Laube hosted a Book Launch Secrets webinar. More than 500 authors registered for the webinar from five different continents. This episode of the Christian Publishing Show is the audio of that webinar. If you prefer to watch the webinar with slides, you can watch the replay here. The replay is free to watch (or to listen to). 2021 Book …

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Book Launch Secrets Webinar Replay

By Thomas Umstattd, Jr.on April 6, 2021
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A couple of weeks ago, Thomas Umstattd Jr. and Steve Laube hosted a Book Launch Secrets webinar. More than 500 authors registered for the webinar from five different continents. This episode of the Christian Publishing Show is the audio of that webinar. If you prefer to watch the webinar with slides, you can watch the replay […]
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100th Episode Celebration with Jerry B. Jenkins

By Thomas Umstattd, Jr.on March 30, 2021
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This is the 100th episode of the Christian Publishing Show. Over the last two years, we have had downloads from 92 different countries. I want to thank all of you who have shared the show with a friend or left us a review at Apple Podcasts.  To celebrate 100 episodes, we have a very special guest.  Our guest today is a #1 New York Times bestselling author who has written 197 books, in …

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How Jerry B. Jenkins Got His Start as a Writer

By Thomas Umstattd, Jr.on March 30, 2021
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In this interview, Jerry Jenkins tells authors how he got his start as a writer and how he's maintained his career for decades.
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Steps to Writing a Book

By Dan Balowon March 24, 2021
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Each week I attend a Bible study with other men where the only other significant unifying trait is that we are Christians navigating our way through life. Actually, it’s enough. Three of the guys have something else in common. They are accomplished athletes who run, hike, or bike long distances for enjoyment, which would not be my idea of fun. One is a CPA, who ran a qualifying time in his age …

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Writing App Roundup with Dave Chesson, Kindlepreneur

By Thomas Umstattd, Jr.on March 16, 2021
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Sometimes using the right tool for the job makes all the difference. If you are still using Microsoft Word to write your book, I have some good news: Much better tools exist. The challenge with writing is that each writer is different. This means different writers will do better with different tools.  To help us navigate the world of writing tools, we have a special guest.  He is the creator …

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