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Is Book Publishing Fair?

By Dan Balowon March 29, 2016
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Anyone who has been around young children has heard their cry of protest, “That’s not fair,” when some sort of consequence is meted out for misbehavior.

In reality, what is being objected to is fairness, as consequences were spelled out ahead of time and known to all.

Parent: “One more word about this and you will go to bed without dinner.”
Child: “Word.”
Parent: “OK, to your room you go…no dinner.”
Child: “That’s not fair!”

We can insert Jesus’ parable of the vineyard workers here.

Book publishing in the developed world is actually quite fair. But so many people view it as unfair. From the seemingly random and often callous manner in which proposals are handled by agents and editors to the contracts put forth by publishers, cries of unfair tactics and policies can be heard from authors, author groups and people who quit publishing altogether.

I certainly don’t mean to insinuate everything is perfect or the publishing industry is devoid of poor behavior and policies.

I’ve had any number of new authors from developing countries send me a proposal for their book. When I ask why they haven’t tried to publish in their own country first, their reaction can be summed up with an “Are you kidding?” type statement, alluding to a fact the book industry in their country is in such disarray or impossible to penetrate, western publishers, despite our imperfections, are an infinitely better first option no matter where you live on earth.

Most people attach the unfair label to something that didn’t go their way because we all want to be an exception to whatever rules exist.

That’s the perfect world. We get what we want.

There are comparisons in so many walks of life.

  • In a legal case, if you win, the court is fair and just. If you lose, no justice done and the verdict was a travesty. The whole system is corrupt.
  • In sports, when you win, life is good. If you loose, the referees are all incompetent and everything is rigged against you.
  • If you get the job, they made a right decision. If you didn’t get hired, it’s an uneven playing field filled with unfair practices.
  • In politics, if your candidate wins, you feel like society is moving in the right direction. If the other candidate wins, society is spiraling down to Armageddon.
  • The sign says, “Construction Zone, 25 MPH, Fines doubled” and you get angry when you get a double price ticket for going 35 mph.
  • You sign an agreement before attending a Christian college agreeing you will not engage in certain prohibited activities. Fair or unfair when you ignore it and are expelled?

The cries of “unfair” really come from the fact everyone despises not having things go their way. Rejection and failure to meet expectations of yourself or others raises anger and defensiveness from anyone. It’s understandable.

If an agent puts forth a process for submitting proposals and you choose to ignore the process entirely, is it fair or unfair when your proposal is declined?

If you signed a publishing contract and you turn in a manuscript months late without notifying the publisher beforehand, is it fair or unfair when a publisher invokes a contractual right to require repayment of advances?

Similarly, publishers who agree to do something in a contract and then don’t follow through, is it fair or unfair when the author withdraws from the agreement?

If an agent stops performing for an author, is it unfair when we are fired?

Publishing is actually quite fair. If your book sells well, you make more money than if it didn’t. If your first book meets or exceeds expectations, you will get another contract. If not, no next contract.

If you try to self-publish and have no constituency to tell about your book, it won’t sell well. If you do, it will.

It’s a performance industry. The system worked.

Sure, some people have nightmare stories, but for the most part, they are exceptions.

The book publishing industry says this to authors:

  1. Be a qualified and credible professional writer
  2. Make commitments and keep them
  3. Help to market your book
  4. Play well with others
  5. Write great

If an author writes with marginal quality, has no solid platform, doesn’t play well with others or follow through on commitments, is an editor or agent being fair or unfair for declining them?

Conversely, authors want from publishers:

  1. Good contract terms
  2. Editorial partnership
  3. Professional staff
  4. Collaborative spirit
  5. Keep commitments

When publishers violate one or more of these, authors don’t feel very good about the process.

When one party doesn’t uphold their side of the relationship, it becomes unfair and unpleasant.

You might disagree with all this based on personal experience and I know with hundreds of thousands of books published every year in the US alone there are some sad stories of unjust treatment, from publisher-to-author and visa versa.

For most, contracts are fulfilled, commitments are kept and fairness reigns.

But knowing this matters little when you don’t win.

Category: Book Business, Career, Contracts, Get Published, Marketing, The Publishing LifeTag: publishing, The Publishing Life

The Credibility Gap

By Dan Balowon March 22, 2016
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This was a tough post to write. I felt at times that I was arguing with myself on these issues, but maybe in today’s “journey” through the topic of author credibility you will sense the struggle that Christian authors confront and maybe some truth with be revealed in the process. If you were a mathematics professor at a junior college and had a revolutionary insight related to something about …

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Category: Book Business, Career, Platform, The Publishing LifeTag: Career, Credentials, The Publishing Life

Mistakes Writers Make in their Queries

By Steve Laubeon March 7, 2016
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The pile of unsolicited proposal, queries, and manuscripts (both email and physical mail) is an unending source of delight and frustration. Delight when an amazing idea from an amazing writer arrives like a special holiday gift. Unfortunately that doesn’t happen as often as I would like. Instead there is a litany of things authors do time and again. If writers would treat their query or book …

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Category: Book Proposals, Career

Publishing Acronyms

By Steve Laubeon February 22, 2016
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After being in an industry for a while there is a natural tendency to speak in code. Acronyms flow freely and can be a foreign language to those new to the conversation. Below is an attempt to spell out some of the more common acronyms in the publishing industry and some specific to the Christian publishing industry. They are grouped by topic in a rudimentary way but in no particular order. If …

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Category: Book Business, Book Business, Communication, Contracts, The Publishing LifeTag: Acronyms, publishing

Tossed by the Ocean of Emotion

By Steve Laubeon January 25, 2016
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It is hard to be a writer or to work in the publishing industry. Everyone defines success differently and we strive to meet those expectations at every turn. Often we let “success” define us, especially when a writer is told “You are only as good as the sales of your last book.” Or an agent is told, “You are only worth the value of your last contract.” Henri Nouwen, in his book The Return of the …

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Category: Art, Career, Get Published, RejectionTag: Career, Get Published, Rejection

Actually, It Is Whether You Win or Lose

By Dan Balowon September 29, 2015
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If you set out to discover how people feel about the issue of competition, you will find yourself walking knee-deep in philosophical, psychological, neo-political and even religious opinion. You will find it a rather polarizing issue. On one extreme are people who feel like competition is bad because there are winners and losers and no one should ever be made to feel like a loser. Ever. On the …

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Category: CareerTag: Career, competition

Bad Reviews

By Dan Balowon August 11, 2015
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This post isn’t about what you think. I am not going to address how to handle the emotional sting of a bad review. Instead, I am going to talk about those closest to you, showing how your friends and family can hinder your writing career. If you cannot stand the thought those you love may be undermining your career, stop reading now and go make yourself a smoothie and relax. For those of you who …

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Category: Book Proposals, Book Review, Career, Get PublishedTag: Family and Friends, Get Published, reviews

The Great Slot Mystery

By Dan Balowon May 26, 2015
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Every traditional publishing company has a personality or focus that defines them and their product. Usually that personality or focus is determined by past success. They also know how many books they can effectively publish during a year. Combining focus and capacity, you have the beginnings of a publishing strategy. No publisher (or for that matter any company) will succeed for long unless they …

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Category: Book Business, The Publishing LifeTag: Categories, publishing, The Publishing Life

The Lincoln Lessons

By Dan Balowon April 14, 2015
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I couldn’t let this day pass without mentioning Abraham Lincoln. It was 150 years ago today that the U.S. President was shot in the head by John Wilkes Booth while attending a performance of “Our American Cousin” at Ford’s Theatre in Washington, DC. He died the next morning on April 15, but today marks the beginning of his death. A lot of books (some estimate as many as 15,000) have been …

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Category: CareerTag: Career, Lincoln

To Those Who Went Before Us…Thanks A Lot

By Dan Balowon April 7, 2015
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Any author who experiences disappointment is bound to ask the question, “What am I doing wrong?” Using Rick Warren’s first line of The Purpose Driven Life, “It’s not about you,” might just be one explanation of why it is so hard to get published and succeed at it. Whether you have already been published or are an aspiring author, the greatest threat to your present or future writing career could …

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Category: Book Business, Career, Rejection, The Publishing LifeTag: Rejection, The Publishing Life
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