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Talk Less, Write More

By Bob Hostetleron November 4, 2020
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The hit musical Hamilton has many memorable moments. One of my favorites is the moment when the title character first meets his colleague (and later, nemesis), Aaron Burr, who says, “Let me offer you some free advice.”

“Talk less,” Burr says. “Smile more.” 

It’s a great character moment for the two characters. It reflects Burr’s slippery politician ways and foreshadows one of Hamilton’s fatal flaws (among many), especially as Burr adds, “Fools who run their mouths off wind up dead.”

Writers, beware. Not so much of death by dueling politicians, though that’s always something to look out for. But I think Burr’s advice can be revised slightly for working writers today:

Talk less. Write more.

I’ve mentioned it before on this blog, but it bears repeating. Sometimes a writer needs to learn to “talk less” and “write more.”

For example, people may occasionally ask, “You’re a writer? What are you writing?” Amazingly, many folks are intensely interested in the writing life because, well, it’s so glamorous and profitable. Right? And you may be tempted to launch into a summation of your work-in-progress, at least until your listener’s eyes glaze over.

Or you may be part of a writers group or critique circle where you’re encouraged to discuss your works-in-progress. Or you may attend a book club or writers conference where you feel freed and affirmed to talk about your writing with others who understand you.

Cool. But beware.

Early in my life as a professional writer, I enjoyed speaking honestly, straightforwardly, even expansively, about my current writing project. I wouldn’t just offer a quick “elevator speech,” so to speak, but would speak in detail about the trails I was following and techniques I was trying. It was fun and easy.

But upon arriving back at my writing desk, I would often spin my wheels. An idea that had previously seemed inspired had somehow soured. A scene or chapter I had been excited to write suddenly bored me. It took much time and effort to ramp up my enthusiasm and creativity. It was frustrating, nearly debilitating, to discover that I had lost enthusiasm and focus for my project. It was as if I had betrayed my muse. Or as if I had a limited supply of inspiration that didn’t want to be written once I had already talked it out.

That may have never happened to you. You may be much more of an “external processor” than I am, and talking through your work-in-progress may not spend or steal your brilliance; or you may just have far more resources as a writer than I do. But I learned the hard way that, speaking only for myself, as Aaron Burr (or Lin Manuel-Miranda) might put it, “Fools who run their mouths off wind up defeated.” I had to protect my enthusiasm and creativity like a Continental soldier keeping his powder dry. I had to learn to “talk less” and “write more.”

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Category: Editing, The Writing Life, Writing Craft

A Writer’s “Voice”

By Bob Hostetleron October 28, 2020
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A couple months ago I asked some of my clients if there are terms they hear in writing and publishing that they wish someone would clearly and conclusively define. One said this: “Professionals say, ‘Find your voice,’ ‘Trust your voice,’ ‘Embrace your voice.’ I can recognize another writer’s voice, but I can’t for the life of me describe mine. Is ‘your voice’ something someone else has to describe …

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Category: Craft, Creativity, Editing, Get Published, Pitch, Pitching, Writing CraftTag: voice, writing voice

5 Social-Media Mistakes Writers Make

By Bob Hostetleron October 21, 2020
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There are many ways to shoot yourself in the foot as a writer. For example, using clichés, such as “shoot yourself in the foot.” The advent of social media (Facebook, Twitter, Tik Tok, Instagram, Pinterest, etc.) has definitely added to the list. Here are what I consider five of the most common mistakes authors and would-be authors make on social media:  Mistake #1: Don’t “do” social media I’m …

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Category: Marketing, Social Media

Nagging Grammar Questions

By Bob Hostetleron October 14, 2020
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Some time ago I asked my clients what publishing terms or concepts they wished someone would define or explain for them. I covered some of those in my September 16 post on this site. Some, however, asked for help with some nagging grammar questions. (We all—even the most accomplished—have such questions.) So I was going to answer them, but then I thought, Why not ask my friend, editor, and grammar …

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Category: Writing CraftTag: Grammar

A Writer’s Fears (a prayer)

By Bob Hostetleron October 7, 2020
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Save me from fear, Lord.Give me courage to write;make me “bold in our God” (1 Thessalonians 2:2) to write for you,whatever the obstacles or blockages the Enemy may throw in my way. Save me from the fear of rejection;let me write today for your approval first and foremost,and if I receive it, let me be satisfied with it. Save me from the fear of inadequacy;remind me that “all my springs are in you” …

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Category: Personal, Theology

Strange Writing Habits

By Bob Hostetleron September 30, 2020
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In the acknowledgments for her novel In the Midst of Winter, Isabel Allende reveals that she starts each new book on January 8.  Isn’t that interesting? That little tidbit got me thinking (always dangerous, I know). So, I asked some clients to share any strange writing habits—quirks, superstitions, compulsions, etc.—they might have (also dangerous, I know). Here’s what they said: If I don’t …

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Category: Creativity, The Writing Life

Learn the Lingo, Part 2

By Bob Hostetleron September 23, 2020
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Did you know that a question mark and exclamation point together (like so?!) is called an interrobang?! Did you also know it’s probably not a good idea to use an interrobang in your article or book? Now you do. You’re welcome. Last week I tried to answer some of the questions of my clients and writer friends (yes, I have friends) about writing or publishing terms and concepts they’ve wondered …

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Category: Editing, The Writing Life

Learn the Lingo

By Bob Hostetleron September 16, 2020
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The opening scene of the Meredith Wilson musical The Music Man begins on a train, as a bunch of salesmen debate the best sales techniques. One salesman, however, insists repeatedly, “You gotta know the territory.” That applies not only to selling “the noggins, and the piggins, and the firkins,” but also to writing for publication. So I asked a number of my writing friends and clients what …

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Category: Book Business, Contracts, The Publishing Life

Don’t Quit Your Day Job

By Bob Hostetleron September 9, 2020
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Many years ago, when Hector was a pup (look it up), I made the fateful decision to start writing full-time. Sounds like a dream, no? Well, in some ways, it was. But several things made that transition possible. First, I had already enjoyed some success as an author, having published my first book and contracted (if I recall correctly, and that’s never a given) my next two books. Second, one day I …

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Category: Career, Money, The Writing Life

Can Silence Make You a Better Writer?

By Bob Hostetleron September 2, 2020
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Decades ago, when I was barely out of diapers, I started taking annual (sometimes twice-yearly) prayer retreats at the Abbey of Gethsemani in the hills of central Kentucky. It’s a silent Trappist monastery, and it’s been a boon to my prayer life. A lifeline, sometimes. It’s also been a boon to my writing life. Once I’ve checked in and been immersed in and surrounded by silence (interrupted only by …

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Category: Inspiration, The Writing Life, Theology
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