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My Book is Due and My Life is Falling Apart

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon February 19, 2015
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Sound familiar? Even most unpublished authors wouldn’t envy the published author this type of pressure. But over the course of a career, the likelihood is great that one or many events will throw off a writer’s schedule.

There are times when work has to take a temporary stop. No doubt about it. When major stress hits, be sure to pray and meditate each day. You don’t have time not to stop and do this.

Carve out some time each day to write. Most families understand that a writer being paid has to treat her work with the same seriousness as someone working for a corporation. Writers may appear to have a leisurely life, but working from home is still work. A flexible schedule doesn’t mean no schedule. Bringing family on board to ease your burdens at home quickly is paramount to accomplishing your writing goals, especially in times of stress.

When it becomes obvious that your family will be under unusual stress for a long period, do your best to establish your new normal as quickly as possible. Going by the new schedule, figure out when you can work and keep that schedule. Let your family know that these are your new writing hours and must be respected.

When you discover that you will be under stress, immediately inform your professional partners. This will help bring them on board and they will understand if, despite your best efforts, you find you need to ask for a deadline extension. But please, only ask for a deadline extension as a last resort. Publishing a book is a process involving many steps and people. Being very late with one part of the process creates a domino effect of pressure down the line for everyone. This is not to say it’s never permissible to ask for an extension. I only to encourage you to work out a way to meet your schedule on your own first if you can.

During unusual stress, people will understand that you may not be as prompt with answering emails and phone calls. However, being a bit more slow is not the same as being absent. This is not the time to hide for days from your editor or agent. Your editor still has deadlines, and may need your help to do her job to meet her own deadlines. You must be available for those times.

No one is immune to emergencies, trauma, and stress. Such events usually occur at the worst times. But by praying, guarding your time, keeping to a schedule, and bringing your partners on board, you should be able to weather the storm and be proud of your new published books.

Your turn:

What was your last crisis that interrupted your work? How did you handle it?

What other tips can you offer writers under stress?

Do you have a favorite Bible verse or devotional book that has helped you during stressful times?

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Category: Career, Get PublishedTag: Career, Deadlines

Pets and Personality

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon February 12, 2015
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Do any of the characters in your novel have pets? When I read about pet ownership, the choice of animal and where they live may say a lot. The use of animals in a story can lend some wonderful texture to your character. It uses some common assumptions about various animals. A few examples: A large dog on a farm means a carefree, rambunctious animal roaming about the place, showing up on the back …

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Category: Craft, Creativity, Writing CraftTag: Craft, Creativity, Writing Craft

Personality Quirks

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon February 5, 2015
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We all have personality quirks. These are part of our charm. Some people may think that the fact I have named my three houseplants is a personality quirk. But what other modern living beings would put up with the monikers Perpetua, Magnifica, and Scholastica? When I ask my husband, “Did you water Perpetua?” he knows what I mean. We inherited a large peace lily from one daughter’s …

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Category: Craft, Creativity, Writing CraftTag: Characters

In the Garden – A Creative Exercise

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon January 29, 2015
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Some writers tell me that ideas flow so fast they don’t have time to write them all. Others say the muse can be reticent. One thing both types of writers seem to have in common is a love of the creative exercise. Through my devotional reading, I entered into a creative exercise that I think many writers will enjoy. Would you like to join me? The idea that your soul can be compared to a …

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Category: CreativityTag: Creativity

Suspending Disbelief

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon January 22, 2015
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After watching a television series about the life of St. Teresa de Jesus, my husband and I viewed the special bonus about the making of the film, in the early 1980s. One scene showed travelers, using conveyances common to the 16th century, moving toward several parked trucks. Another scene showed vehicles parked behind a village facade. An outtake showed St. Teresa speaking, with a contemporary …

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Category: Book Proposals, Craft, Creativity, Writing CraftTag: Craft, Writing Craft

Watching History

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon January 15, 2015
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Over the holidays, my husband and I viewed an epic series about the life of St. Teresa de Jesus, filmed in Spanish, though English subtitles were provided. For eight hours, we were taken back to the 1500s in Spain. As a writer of historical novels, I’ve researched many eras. However, being immersed in an era for such a length of time brought to life many facts: 1.) Even in the best of …

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Category: Genre, Writing CraftTag: Genre, Historical, Research

Tamela’s Year – 2014

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon January 8, 2015
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Once again, the Lord has blessed me with much more than I deserve. My family and I are healthy and happy and He continues to provide abundantly. I am grateful to you, my readers, and so to help you, I offer my perspective on the business: Heartsong At the start of 2014, I happily represented a robust list of Heartsong authors. As we all know, the line is poised to shut down this year. I appreciate …

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Category: AgencyTag: 2014, Agency

Unlikeable Characters

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon December 18, 2014
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In a recent blog, I touched upon the problem of unlikeable characters. I mentioned that I stopped reading a published book because I didn’t like any of the characters. So when do I think a reader will keep reading about unlikeable characters? I’d say one or more of the following will save a story: 1.) The protagonist has been victimized and the reader can root for her to overcome being …

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Category: Craft, Writing CraftTag: Characters, Writing Craft

A Picky Reader

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon December 11, 2014
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Having a book rejected by an agent or editor is puzzling, especially when the agent or editor have stated they are seeking just what we’re offering. Almost every day, my office must decline books that should be a fit. Usually the reasons are concrete (too long, too short, writing doesn’t sparkle, insufficient platform). But sometimes we’re just picky. I’ve touched on this …

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Category: Book Business, Book Proposals, Craft, Creativity, Get Published, RejectionTag: Rejection

Should I Be Writing This Genre?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon December 4, 2014
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Often I talk with new authors writing in lots of genres. This is fine if it’s part of your personal writing journey and learning process. I want my authors to enjoy what they’re writing. But when you get serious about publication, know when to choose and what to choose. One mistake is to write strictly to market when you don’t like the genre. I love to tell the story of a friend who said she knew …

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