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“You Are What You Do” – A Very Dangerous Myth

By Steve Laubeon May 5, 2025
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Typically, we define work as something we “do.” Work can then be defined as the activity you do as a profession and for which you are paid. But if you are a writer, the latter half of that formula isn’t always a guaranteed proposition!

Thus, for the writer, we are left with a definition of work as being what you do. But that can be a dangerous thing because we tend to let what we do define who we are. I can speak to this firsthand.

Over 30 years ago, I lost my job. I won’t go into the gory details; suffice it to say it was a surprise and came without warning. Since I had some time on my hands, I thought I would take a night class on the Old Testament prophets at a local seminary. During the first session, the professor had us go around the room, say our names and what we did for a living. When it came my turn, I flushed with embarrassment and said, “My name is Steve Laube, and I am unencumbered by employment.” I felt so humiliated that I left the building during the first break and never returned.

Why did I react that way? Because I defined myself by my work. And since I no longer had “work,” I no longer had a purpose. A ridiculous reaction? Maybe. But it was very real at that moment.

I wrestled during those months of unemployment with my own sense of identity and purpose. Ironically, my work became the job of finding a job. Eventually, through God’s mercy, I received a phone call from Carol Johnson at Bethany House Publishers wanting to talk about me becoming an editor. And a new chapter began.

I learned some valuable lessons during those dry times. Some of them may apply to your situation.

1. I am not what I do. While it is so easy to fall into this trap, it is actually a sinkhole without a bottom. You are not a writer. I am not a literary agent. What we do is not our identity. I have to trust what God says in Philippians 3:20 and Colossians 1:13-14 and 1 Peter 2:9. If we believe in Christ, our identity is in Him.

2. Waiting is hard. Need I say more?

3. Success is impossible to define. We all struggle with this, but writers in particular. We drink up numbers and rankings and other authors’ successes like water in a parched desert. When our numbers are not what we had anticipated, we get depressed. Since writing is solitary and time-consuming, there is a desire to have some criteria by which we can judge whether the effort is “worth it.” But that definition is incredibly subjective. No two authors define success in the same way. I talked to a writer who was angry that their latest book did not sell the usual 50,000 copies, but only sold 40,000. Another author was mortified that their book sold only 1,200 copies over two years. Publishers can also define success differently. One may sell 5,000 copies and celebrate. Another publisher may sell 5,000 copies, and someone’s job is on the line.

Let’s return to number one on the list above and think about it for a moment: “You are not what you do.” Then, aren’t the other two solved by grasping the import of number one?

It is simplicity itself. Instead of searching for identity, success, and gratification, we already have everything we need.

Please don’t misread me. I’m not saying you can’t or shouldn’t identify what you “do.” I am a literary agent. This is a true statement and the answer I give when asked, “What do you do for a living?” Giving a theological answer would come across as pretentious.

Writing is something we get to do.
Writing is something we are called to do.

In that, there is purpose. In that, there is success.

However, I do not wrap up my Identity (with a capital “I”) in my job. That lesson was learned. My identity, as in who I am at the core, should not be defined by my occupation. How we act is a reflection of our inner self. “You will recognize them by their fruits” (Matthew 7:16). “Faith apart from works is useless” (James 2:20). And yet at the same time, 2 Corinthians 5:17 reads, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.”

 

[An earlier version of this post was published in 2014. It has been reworked and updated.]

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Category: Career, Personal, TheologyTag: Career, Success

Foreign Intelligence

By Dan Balowon March 27, 2025
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In 2017, I wrote about The Challenge for American Christian Authors. I asserted that great care needs to be taken when American authors want their message to be understood by anyone outside of the US Christian subculture. Today, I am reversing that position and looking at what writers from other countries might have to say to the North American believer. Two things brought this to mind: First, I …

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Category: Book Business, Career, Theology

4 Conference Success Secrets

By Steve Laubeon March 3, 2025
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I have been on the faculty of nearly 200 writers conferences over the years. Some might say that is the definition of insanity… !?! But I would not be where I am today if it were not for the fine people I have met over the years at those events. I am a firm believer in the purpose behind a writers conference and what can be accomplished. After a while it became clear which writers were going to …

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Category: Career, ConferencesTag: Success, writers conferences

How Do You Know What Will (or Will Not) Sell?

By Steve Laubeon February 24, 2025
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There is a mysterious magic embedded in the mythos of the publishing industry: the ability to pick successful books. I was recently asked, “You say ‘no’ so often, how do you know when to say ‘yes?’” I wish I could claim that every agent and publisher have a secret formula we consult to know what will sell. Ask any group of us for that secret and we will all laugh because there is no “secret.” We …

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Category: Book Business, Book Proposals, Branding, Career, PlatformTag: Agents, book proposals, Career, Pitching, What Sells, Writers

Book Proposals I’d Love to See (What Tamela Hancock Murray Is Looking For)

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon January 7, 2025
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(Updated 1/7/2025) I’m thankful to the Lord that I’m a literary agent working for Him in Christian publishing. I’m grateful to the readers of this blog for being part of our writing community. As for approaching me with your work, let’s see if our passions match: Christian Romantic Suspense and Suspense Readers of Christian romantic suspense and suspense are a large and devoted …

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Category: Agency, Book Business, Book Proposals, Career, Craft, Creativity, Romance, Trends, Writing CraftTag: Agency, book proposals

The Anatomy of the Publishing Cycle

By Steve Laubeon November 25, 2024
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If you ask an editor or an agent, “What’s hot right now?” you are too late with the question. The nature of the publishing business is that what you see selling today are books that were conceived, written, published, and marketed over the past couple of years or more. That is why we, on this side of the table, avoid making pronouncements on current trends. In some ways, the agent and the …

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Category: Book Business, Branding, Career, Creativity, Indie, Marketing, TrendsTag: publishing, The Publishing Life, Trends

Publishing Advice Is Like Political Polling

By Dan Balowon October 17, 2024
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Whenever you encounter information about any subject, the first step is to check the source. Unsurprisingly, a favorable political poll sometimes (often?) originates from a source with a vested interest in or closely aligned with the group most likely to benefit from the good news. There are relatively few unbiased, objective sources of polling research. For the same reason, the first question you …

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My Best Reading Advice

By Bob Hostetleron October 16, 2024
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My wife and I, newly married and preparing to enter training for ministry, hosted a seasoned pastor in our home for one of our entrance interviews. He asked what sorts of books we’d been reading, and we answered. I expected him to be impressed with my answer. After all … well, never mind. But he smiled kindly. “May I offer a piece of advice?” What were we going to say? “No”? So we gave the …

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Category: Book Review, Career, Encouragement, Inspiration, Reading

Writing History Too Soon

By Dan Balowon October 2, 2024
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Over six and a half years ago, I wrote a blog for this space on the necessity for authors to be students of history. Awareness of past events is important to determine a current context, a healthy perspective, and a sense of how things change (or not). Sometimes, the long-term implications of an event are quite different than initially thought. Most of us can look back on life events with a …

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Category: Career, Personal, The Writing Life

When You Don’t Feel Like Writing

By Steve Laubeon September 23, 2024
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“I don’t feel like writing today.” Ever said that to yourself? I’m saying it today. But if I followed through on the impulse, this page would be blank. Why You Won’t Write Today (1) Physical Illness can strike without warning. And some people suffer from chronic conditions. I have clients who pray for a “good” day so they can put a few words on the page. …

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Category: Career, Craft, The Writing LifeTag: Career, The Writing Life, Writing Craft
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