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055 How to Find Your Courage as an Author

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon January 6, 2020
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For the next few weeks, we will be releasing some “best of” episodes while I spend time with our new baby Thomas Gregory Umstattd, III. “Tommy” was born weighing 8 pounds, 14 ounces and he and my wife are both home and doing well.

Why we are posting re-runs for the next few weeks. I need more sleep!

Episode Notes

This episode originally aired in 2018.

Today I would like to talk about one of the things that make authors successful: courage.

Fear is the biggest enemy of authors. It can ruin their writing. It can ruin their marketing. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to overcome fear and change the world.

How Fear Ruins Writing

Fear Ruins Our Output

Fear can keep you from finishing your manuscript. For some writers, it keeps them from starting in the first place.

It takes courage to write.

Fear Ruins Our Craft

The author who is afraid of offending someone often fills her writing with so many qualifiers that her point gets lost. Her short punchy sentences get watered down so as not to offend. Or, she is afraid of offending specific people, so she takes the vivid details out of her story until all that remains is a bland abstraction.

It takes courage to say what you mean.

How this Fear Disguises Itself: Perfectionism

Perfectionism is a fancy word for fear. You will never be perfect, and neither will your writing.

Excellence = quality + speed.

How Fear Ruins Our Marketing

After I wrote the blog post Why Courtship is Fundamentally Flawed I got pushback from hundreds, if not thousands, of other bloggers. People wished my death on social media and left hundreds of negative comments. At one point my mom was in tears after seeing her friends hating on me on Facebook.

That can be the cost of having a million people read what you write.

During that time, I had a fortune cookie message in my wallet. It said simply, “He who gets the credit gets the blame.”

Writing is an act of leadership. You are either leading people to a new world in fiction or to a new way of thinking in nonfiction. People complain about their leaders.

If you are afraid of putting yourself out there, everything about marketing your book will be harder.

How this Fear Disguises Itself: Humility

A lot of authors think that promoting their work is in conflict with Christian humility. So, when is it okay to promote yourself as an author?

Let me answer that question with a story.

The Story of Dr. Barry Marshall

For decades, medical students were taught that chronic stomach ailments, including peptic ulcers and gastritis, were caused by stress, greasy food, or too much alcohol.

Barry Marshall’s research showed that this was 100% wrong. His research showed that while stomach acid caused the pain, ulcers were actually caused by bacteria that the acid helped fight. So taking an antacid was unhelpful, if not downright harmful.

The medical community was not impressed by this Aussie doctor telling them they were wrong.

Marshall tried doing experiments on pigs, but could not validate his theory. It turns out that pigs have a very robust digestive system.

He asked for permission to test on humans and was denied. So he drank billions of strands of H. pylori bacteria himself to see if he would get an ulcer. Marshall expected to get an ulcer in a year or two. He got one in three days. Then he took an antibiotic and it cured his ulcer.

He now had both the cause and the cure to a sickness affecting millions of people.

So, when was it okay for Barry Marshall to promote himself?

What if he had said, “I don’t want people to think I’m some great scientist so I will keep this to myself”?

No!

Dr. Barry Marshall had an obligation to the truth to spread it as widely as he could. He had an obligation to the truth to write articles, to be seen as an expert, and to convince the world to change its thinking.

False humility is just another form of pride. As Rick Warren once said, “Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it is thinking about yourself less.”

Guess who wrote the words “Now Moses was very humble—more humble than any other person on earth.” Moses did.

If you think humility is at odds with the truth, you either don’t know the truth or you don’t know humility.

If your book is filled with truth, you have an obligation to spread that truth even if it means becoming famous in the process.

How to Find Your Courage

Love!

Love your reader. The more you love your reader, the more courage you will have.  Perfect love casts out all fear.

Is it hard to love perfectly? Sure. In fact, writing and marketing may never stop being scary. But that is okay. Courage is not the absence of fear; it is right action despite feeling terrified.

If you love your reader and your writing will help her, then you already have everything you need.

God has given you everything you need to do everything He has called you to do. So get to it!

Final Thoughts

Like I’ve said before, the world is broken. As Christians, we have the truth of Christ that the world desperately needs.

I want to partner with authors who are willing to face that brokenness and write the truth even when the truth hurts to write. Can you write truth to power while motivated by love?

If so, I want to stand with you as you change the world. If you’ve been persecuted for your position, I want to help. That is what my mastermind groups are here for.

To be clear, I’m looking for more than just controversial books. Your book doesn’t need to be controversial to advance the Kingdom.

I am looking for authors with the courage to write clearly and the courage to promote their work publicly.  

I’m looking for authors:

  • with clear, simple writing.
  • who are willing to tackle today’s controversial issues and topics.
  • with a track record of putting themselves out there as the face of their message.
  • who have a passion for the truth in their writing.

Oh and the rest of the story with Dr. Barry Marshall? He won the Nobel Prize in medicine. All those medical textbooks have now been rewritten to include his research.

Sponsor: Thomas Umstattd’s Mastermind Groups

Do you want help and encouragement in your writing career? I have started two mastermind groups, for published and prepublished authors.

These groups meet monthly with me via video call where each mastermind checks in, shares their progress, challenges, and goals. Each mastermind also gets a chance to pick my brain and get encouragement from the other masterminds. You can learn more here.

The Christian Writers Institute course of the week: 7 Secrets of Amazing Author Websites. Use coupon code: “welcome” to get it for free.

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Fun Fridays – December 20, 2019

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon December 20, 2019
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A beautiful rendition of “Mary, Did You Know.” Merry Christmas!

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Praise the Lord This Christmas!

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon December 19, 2019
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Thank You, Lord, for Your willingness to leave Heaven to be with us for a short time, to share Your wisdom and love. May we walk with You always, for Your plans for us are forever right and good, even when they may not seem that way to the world. May we never let go of Your hand; and may we stay close to You in heart, mind, and spirit. _________ Today I am sharing the Psalms readings from the Book …

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Answers to Recent Questions from Clients

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon December 18, 2019
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In the course of a normal work week—if any of my work weeks can be called “normal”—I get asked a question or two. Or fifty. And, while there are no stupid questions, or so I was told by my second-grade teacher, Mrs. Hoffmann, some questions prompt more illuminating answers than others do. So I’ve picked a few that clients and others have asked recently, along with my answers (cleaned up a bit, …

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054 – How to Find an Agent With The Christian Writers Market Guide 2020 Edition

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon December 17, 2019
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Have you ever been frustrated while looking for an agent or editor? In today’s episode, I talk about where to find good editors and agents using the Christian Writers Market Guide.  Why are agents and editors so hard to find for many authors? It’s because many authors: don’t know where to start. don’t know who to call. don’t know who to trust.  The cool …

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054 – How to Find an Agent With The Christian Writers Market Guide 2020 Edition

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon December 17, 2019
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Have you ever been frustrated while looking for an agent or editor? In today’s episode, I talk about where to find good editors and agents using the Christian Writers Market Guide.  Why are agents and editors so hard to find for many authors? It’s because many authors: don’t know where to start. don’t know who to call. don’t know who to trust.  The cool …

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Fun Fridays – December 13, 2019

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon December 13, 2019
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An oldie, but a goodie! Silent monks “singing” Handel’s “Hallelujah Chorus.” Makes me smile every time I see it.

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Tag, You’re It!

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon December 12, 2019
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One of the most common habits I see burdening stories is overemphasis on conversational tags, which goes hand in hand with not making good use of action tags. Here's an example I just made up:

"No," she exclaimed. She looked at the the pot of stew bubbling the stove and saw red juice splattering. She began to stir.

Unable to resist multitasking, I demonstrated several bad habits in the above …

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A Different Perspective

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon December 5, 2019
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When I was in grade school, a nosy neighbor decided my parents were too conservative, so she loaned me some of her old books by Helen Van Slyke. My parents let me read anything in book form, so we were good to go. Helen was a divorced New York City career woman with views unlike those I would encounter in my hometown. Today, as I cull my book collection, I am revisiting some of those titles with a …

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What Were They Reading?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon November 21, 2019
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In attempting to declutter, I am culling my book collection. Parting with beloved tomes is one of the hardest parts of decluttering for me since I enjoy books so much! I’m keeping copies of all the books I’ve written and the many I have had the honor of representing. Because I tend to buy nearly every book that interests me, I have a massive stack to review. Re-reading bestsellers from the past …

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