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“You Are What You Do” – A Very Dangerous Myth

By Steve Laubeon May 5, 2025
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Typically, we define work as something we “do.” Work can then be defined as the activity you do as a profession and for which you are paid. But if you are a writer, the latter half of that formula isn’t always a guaranteed proposition!

Thus, for the writer, we are left with a definition of work as being what you do. But that can be a dangerous thing because we tend to let what we do define who we are. I can speak to this firsthand.

Over 30 years ago, I lost my job. I won’t go into the gory details; suffice it to say it was a surprise and came without warning. Since I had some time on my hands, I thought I would take a night class on the Old Testament prophets at a local seminary. During the first session, the professor had us go around the room, say our names and what we did for a living. When it came my turn, I flushed with embarrassment and said, “My name is Steve Laube, and I am unencumbered by employment.” I felt so humiliated that I left the building during the first break and never returned.

Why did I react that way? Because I defined myself by my work. And since I no longer had “work,” I no longer had a purpose. A ridiculous reaction? Maybe. But it was very real at that moment.

I wrestled during those months of unemployment with my own sense of identity and purpose. Ironically, my work became the job of finding a job. Eventually, through God’s mercy, I received a phone call from Carol Johnson at Bethany House Publishers wanting to talk about me becoming an editor. And a new chapter began.

I learned some valuable lessons during those dry times. Some of them may apply to your situation.

1. I am not what I do. While it is so easy to fall into this trap, it is actually a sinkhole without a bottom. You are not a writer. I am not a literary agent. What we do is not our identity. I have to trust what God says in Philippians 3:20 and Colossians 1:13-14 and 1 Peter 2:9. If we believe in Christ, our identity is in Him.

2. Waiting is hard. Need I say more?

3. Success is impossible to define. We all struggle with this, but writers in particular. We drink up numbers and rankings and other authors’ successes like water in a parched desert. When our numbers are not what we had anticipated, we get depressed. Since writing is solitary and time-consuming, there is a desire to have some criteria by which we can judge whether the effort is “worth it.” But that definition is incredibly subjective. No two authors define success in the same way. I talked to a writer who was angry that their latest book did not sell the usual 50,000 copies, but only sold 40,000. Another author was mortified that their book sold only 1,200 copies over two years. Publishers can also define success differently. One may sell 5,000 copies and celebrate. Another publisher may sell 5,000 copies, and someone’s job is on the line.

Let’s return to number one on the list above and think about it for a moment: “You are not what you do.” Then, aren’t the other two solved by grasping the import of number one?

It is simplicity itself. Instead of searching for identity, success, and gratification, we already have everything we need.

Please don’t misread me. I’m not saying you can’t or shouldn’t identify what you “do.” I am a literary agent. This is a true statement and the answer I give when asked, “What do you do for a living?” Giving a theological answer would come across as pretentious.

Writing is something we get to do.
Writing is something we are called to do.

In that, there is purpose. In that, there is success.

However, I do not wrap up my Identity (with a capital “I”) in my job. That lesson was learned. My identity, as in who I am at the core, should not be defined by my occupation. How we act is a reflection of our inner self. “You will recognize them by their fruits” (Matthew 7:16). “Faith apart from works is useless” (James 2:20). And yet at the same time, 2 Corinthians 5:17 reads, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.”

 

[An earlier version of this post was published in 2014. It has been reworked and updated.]

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Category: Career, Personal, TheologyTag: Career, Success

Gray Saturday

By Steve Laubeon April 19, 2025
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I wrote this many years ago and post it every Easter weekend as a reminder. May it speak to you in some small way. Gray Saturday by Steve Laube Holy weekend is such a study in contrasts. Friday is dark. Somber. Frightening in its hopelessness and pain. I do not like Dark Fridays. The nails bury themselves deep into my soul. They become a singular stake through the heart of this sinner. Piercing. …

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Category: Faith, Personal, TheologyTag: Christian, Faith, Personal, Theology

Dark Friday

By Steve Laubeon April 18, 2025
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I wrote this piece several years ago and thought it appropriate to post every year on Dark Friday. Take Me, Break Me (a prayer) by Steve Laube Take my eyes, Lord. Strike me blind. * * * Then heal me, Lord, That I may see with Your eyes.   Take my hands, Lord. Crush every bone. * * * Then heal me, Lord, That I may touch with Your tenderness.   Take my ears, Lord. Deafen me. * * * Then …

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Every Christian Book Is About Easter

By Dan Balowon April 10, 2025
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As we near Holy Week, I know the assertion that every Christian book is about Easter won’t change anything in publishing. The seasonal best-seller lists, bookseller promotions, online keyword searches, and publishers require marketing hooks to advertise. But let’s face it: All Christian books are really about Easter Sunday morning. Christian books all have a key pivot point of their message in the …

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Category: The Publishing Life, Theology

A Writer’s Prayer on Beginning a New Project

By Bob Hostetleron April 2, 2025
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Abba, Father, thank you for the work you have given me to do, for what I am about to write. I begin in fear and trembling, not at all sure that I can start well, let alone finish well. But your grace is sufficient for me, in writing as in all of life, for your strength is made perfect in my weakness. Take my weakness, all of it. I give it to you. Take my strength, what little I have. Take my mind, …

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Category: The Writing Life, Theology

Foreign Intelligence

By Dan Balowon March 27, 2025
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In 2017, I wrote about The Challenge for American Christian Authors. I asserted that great care needs to be taken when American authors want their message to be understood by anyone outside of the US Christian subculture. Today, I am reversing that position and looking at what writers from other countries might have to say to the North American believer. Two things brought this to mind: First, I …

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The Power of a Single Word

By Steve Laubeon March 17, 2025
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According to various sources, there are about one million words in the English language. Approximately 750,000 of them are technical or scientific. That leaves us with 250,000 words with which to communicate. I doubt any of us know all of them or use them. According to the TestYourVocab.com website, the average person knows about 20,000 words and uses only half of those in everyday speech. Go to …

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Category: Art, Language, Theology, Writing CraftTag: Language, words

Answering “Where Should I Start?”

By Megan Brownon August 14, 2024
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For many aspiring Christian authors, the work of writing and publishing can feel both exhilarating and overwhelming. With endless advice on structures, marketing strategies, and writing techniques, it’s easy to get lost in the details. Many times, new authors will ask me, “But where do I start?” Before diving into the nuts and bolts of the writing world, there’s a foundational step that …

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Category: Career, Encouragement, Faith, Get Published, Theology

Marketing God

By Dan Balowon August 8, 2024
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Since beginning my career as a marketer, I’ve seen many things come and go, strategies that worked in one situation but not in another, and seemingly great ideas that never worked at all. Marketing is an inexact profession, consisting of trial and error. Keep track of what you do. Continue those things that work; stop doing things that don’t. Rinse. Repeat. John Wanamaker, founder of the …

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Category: Encouragement, Inspiration, Theology

10 Bible Verses for Writers

By Bob Hostetleron June 13, 2024
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Writers in the service of King Jesus will, of course, often refer to the Bible—in our lives and in our writings. The words God inspired should inspire us, and no less so the words that pertain directly to our calling and task as writers. With that in mind, I’d like to offer ten Bible passages that I hope will be helpful, insightful, and inspiring for Christian writers: Sing to the LORD, all the …

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Category: Inspiration, The Writing Life, Theology
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