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Criticism and Its Discontents

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon March 5, 2020
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A reader asked me to write on handling criticism, hence this blog post today.

I’m fond of saying that if you want to find out who your friends are, throw (or be the star of) a bridal or baby shower. People you think won’t respond will come through amazingly, while a couple of people you were sure would come through remarkably won’t bother to send an RSVP.

Likewise, through my involvement in becoming a published author long ago and through friends’ experiences, I found that becoming a published author can also result in some surprises.

  • Group A will be eager to read your book.
  • Group B will encourage you but may not read your book. This is okay since this means they love you and are on your team.
  • Group C will give your book a cursory glance and find something wrong with it.
  • Group D will sneer if your book is self-published. Or if you are traditionally published, Group D will scoff that your publisher isn’t “important” or “big” enough.
  • Group E will deride that your book didn’t win a specific award, while the books they read all win that acclaim. If your book happens to win that particular prize, they’ll either say it’s a fluke or they’ll become silent.
  • Group F will ignore anything concerning your book. You will never know if it’s because they are jealous, they don’t care about the topic, or whatever.

How to respond?

When criticized, there’s no need to give anyone the chance to dwell on a litinay of complaints about your book. Sure, readers can disparage points about any book, even books they like overall. Constructive criticism can be helpful, and books edited with the greatest care can be flawed. Let the person speak. Once. Thank them, and assure them you have noted their thoughts and appreciate that they are interested in your work. Then move on.

If the person’s criticism is not constructive but seems to be coming from a place of disrespect, acknowledge that person. Don’t retort. Be kind. The worse thing you can do is think of a zinger an hour later and kick yourself for not delivering it at the time. Zingers are about you “winning” and do not solve problems.

Instead, pray for them and for your strength in overcoming their jealousy. Search your heart for areas where you might harbor envy for authors you perceive to be more successful than yourself. Praying in this manner may help you understand the person’s reaction to your success and improve your relationships with others.

Being ignored can feel worse than being the victim of active criticism. Force yourself not to be upset when someone doesn’t read your book. Know that time is limited, and tastes vary. Your book’s success doesn’t depend on one particular reader. Instead, focus on those readers who appreciate your work. By God’s grace, those readers will be many.

Your turn:

What tips do you have for dealing with criticism?

How have you seen people you admire deal with jealousy?

How do you deal with your jealousy?

Who is a beautiful example of a successful, yet humble person?

 

 

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Category: Career, Editing

Authors Still Struggle to Make a Living

By Steve Laubeon March 2, 2020
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The above doomy headline is intended to catch your attention. However, it is merely a reflection of a report released on February 19 by the Authors Guild called “The Profession of Author in the 21st Century,” written by Christine Larson, Ph.D., an assistant professor of journalism at the University of Colorado. (You can read the full report here.) She wrote, “The days of authors supporting …

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Category: Career, Money, The Writing Life

Letter to a College Senior

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon February 6, 2020
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A senior in college wrote to me asking for career advice in publishing. Perhaps a few thoughts I shared then might be of help to you. __________ As your letter indicates, publishing offers many options. The ones you are focused on, rightly, are finding employment with a traditional publishing house, preferably one of the Big Five, and writing books. Many publishing professionals pursue this path …

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Category: Career

A Contest Win May Not Help You Get Published

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon January 16, 2020
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If you are looking to be published, yes, DO enter contests. But a contest win may not result in your book’s publication by a traditional publisher. Today I hope to help you become less frustrated and more understanding regarding some reasons why. First of all, contests’ criteria don’t reflect all the requirements of publishers, nor should they. Most contests judge on such factors as grammar, …

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Category: Career, Contests, Get Published

Is Signing with an Agent Your New Year’s Resolution?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon January 9, 2020
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If you are currently without representation, signing with a fantastic agent is an excellent resolution to make! Here are some ideas to consider as you prepare to approach agents: Visit agency websites. Ask yourself: Does the agency have a website, such as www.stevelaube.com? Does the website appear professional? Is it easy to navigate? On the sites that list their clients such as we do, do you see …

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Category: Book Proposals, Career

This Agent’s Look Back at 2019

By Bob Hostetleron January 8, 2020
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2019 was quite a year for me. I suppose it was a year for nearly everyone who made it from January 1 to December 31. In my case, however, it was a year of much change, stress, and some success. The bulk of the change (and stress) involved a long-planned move for me and my wife from our Ohio home of 24 years. We spent the first five-plus months of 2019 packing and preparing for the sale of our home …

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Category: Book Business, Career, Personal, The Writing Life

Answers to Recent Questions from Clients

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon December 18, 2019
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In the course of a normal work week—if any of my work weeks can be called “normal”—I get asked a question or two. Or fifty. And, while there are no stupid questions, or so I was told by my second-grade teacher, Mrs. Hoffmann, some questions prompt more illuminating answers than others do. So I’ve picked a few that clients and others have asked recently, along with my answers (cleaned up a bit, …

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How Do You Measure Success?

By Steve Laubeon December 9, 2019
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by Steve Laube

A few years ago while talking to some editors they described an author who was never satisfied (not revealing the name of course). It this author's latest book had sold 50,000 copies the author wondered why the publisher didn't sell 60,000. And if it sold 60,000 why didn't it sell 75,000? The author was constantly pushing for "more" and was incapable of celebrating any measure of …

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Category: Book Business, Career, TrendsTag: Book Business, Career, Money, Success

Never Burn a Bridge!

By Steve Laubeon December 2, 2019
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The sale of Thomas Nelson to HarperCollins and last week's sale of Heartsong to Harlequin brought to mind a critical piece of advice:

Never Burn a Bridge!

Ours is a small industry and both editors and authors move around with regularity. If you are in a business relationship and let your frustration boil into anger and ignite into rage...and let that go at someone in the publishing company, …

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Category: Agency, Book Business, Book Business, Career, Communication, Rejection, The Publishing Life, The Writing Life, TheologyTag: Agents, Editors, Get Published, Rejection, Trends, Writing Craft

Where Do You Get Your Ideas?

By Bob Hostetleron September 4, 2019
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“Where do you get your ideas?” This question was reportedly posed to Stephen King at a writers conference in New England. His answer may seem harsh, but it’s illuminating: “If you have to ask, don’t become a writer.” Most working writers have little trouble coming up with ideas. In fact, most have more ideas for writing projects than they could possibly complete in a lifetime. Ideas can come from …

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Category: Book Proposals, Career, Inspiration, The Writing Life
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