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Jingle Bells, Taco Shells: The Art of Being a Mom-Writer

By Megan Brownon December 21, 2023
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‘Tis the season to be jolly, right? Well, not if you’re a mom-writer caught in the whirlwind of holiday chaos while trying to meet deadlines, market your latest book, and wear more hats than Santa himself. It’s easy to get swept up in the never-ending to-do list; but what if I told you that it’s okay to give yourself the gift of simply being a mom, especially during this festive season? After all, the magic of the holidays is meant to be shared and cherished with loved ones. So, let’s jingle those bells, swap our laptops for taco shells (figuratively, of course), and rediscover the joy of being present with our families.

Let Go of Made-Up Time Horizons

One of the challenges we mom-writers often face is the self-imposed pressure of meeting goals before the year’s end. We set deadlines for ourselves, convinced that we need to achieve a laundry list of writing-related tasks before the clock strikes midnight on New Year’s Eve. But guess what? Those deadlines are mostly arbitrary and entirely negotiable.

This holiday season, give yourself the gift of time. Let go of the made-up time horizons. That blog post you wanted to finish, the social-media campaign you thought was imperative, or that elusive word-count target can all wait. In the grand scheme of things, a few extra days or weeks won’t matter.

Instead, free up your calendar for the best kind of playdate: quality time with your children. Build gingerbread houses, make snow angels, or simply savor the warmth of a cup of cocoa by the fireplace. Give yourself permission to release the pressure and just be a mom. The work can wait; the memories you create with your family can’t.

Carve Out Time for Your Loved Ones

In the midst of your bustling writing career, it’s easy to blur the boundaries between work and family life. Emails, edits, and endless revisions can encroach on precious moments with your children. But this holiday season, it’s time to set some firm boundaries.

Carve out specific blocks of time for your loved ones and make them non-negotiable. Whether it’s a festive family dinner, watching holiday classics together, or taking an evening stroll to admire the twinkling lights in your neighborhood, these moments are invaluable.

Remember, work will always be there; but your child’s wonderment at the sight of a beautifully lit Christmas tree or their giggles as they open their presents are fleeting and precious. So put your writing aside, at least temporarily; and soak in the joy of being present with your family.

Plan Something Fun

Who says that being a mom-writer means you can’t have fun too? In the hustle and bustle of deadlines and daily responsibilities, it’s easy to forget the pure, unadulterated fun that comes with parenthood.

This holiday season, plan something fun. As for me and my house, we will build the Lego! There’s something magical about creating a miniature world with those colorful interlocking bricks. So, set aside the laptop, shut off your work notifications, and dive into the world of imaginative play with your little ones.

Maybe it’s building a Lego winter wonderland or having a spirited snowball fight in the living room (with soft, plush snowballs, of course). Whatever it is, make it a joyful experience that both you and your children will treasure.

Play. Rest. Breathe.

In the frenzy of juggling your roles as a mom, a writer, and a multitasking marvel, it’s essential to remember that being a mom is not only about taking care of your children’s physical needs. It’s also about nurturing their emotional well-being and creating lasting memories together.

So, this holiday season, give yourself permission to let go of unnecessary time constraints, set boundaries around your family time, and most importantly, plan something fun. Jingle those bells, savor those taco shells, and find the time to simply be a mom. The work can wait, but these moments with your family are what truly matter.

Let the warmth of the season embrace you; and remember that the magic of the holidays is not in the completion of tasks, but in the togetherness of loved ones. Enjoy the festivities, dear mom-writer, and make these moments count.

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Category: Career, Encouragement, Inspiration, The Writing Life

Have Yourself a Query Little Christmas

By Bob Hostetleron December 19, 2023
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Whatever other gifts you may receive this Christmas season, consider giving yourself something that will raise your spirits and may even move your writing hopes and dreams forward. Query something. A query is a brief but detailed one-page letter (or email) written to interest an editor or agent in your … thing (article, book, screenplay, etc.). Some aspiring writers are hesitant to query …

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Category: Book Proposals, Pitching, The Writing Life

How to Prepare for Success As a New Author With Laura Richmond

By Thomas Umstattd, Jr.on December 12, 2023
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  Waiting is hard. Amazon Prime memberships have trained us to expect two-day shipping on everything in life. But that’s not how real life works. God often calls authors into periods of waiting. Perhaps he wants to use that time to test you or develop your character. Perhaps the time is not yet right for your book. You may be in a season of waiting right now. If you are, what should you do? …

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Are You Sure You Want That Brand?

By Dan Balowon December 6, 2023
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Several years ago, I spoke with an aspiring Christian author who had several good book ideas on a wide range of projects for children to adults but, first, wanted to write about their lifelong struggle with a certain sin issue. Once it was published, they would move on with their life and be a beacon for biblical truth on all sorts of other projects. My initial reaction when they explained their …

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Category: Book Business, Career, Platform, The Writing Life

Writers Learn to Prepare

By Steve Laubeon December 4, 2023
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Preparation is awfully important if you are planning to climb Mt. Everest. If you show up in a T-shirt, shorts, and flip flops, with a sack lunch, it is likely you will perish during the ascent. The same idea applies to the writer. Preparation is one of the keys to success. There Are No Shortcuts Despite numerous methods for efficiency, there is still no shortcut in writing a great book. It is …

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Category: Craft, Rejection, The Writing LifeTag: Creativity, Rejection, Writing Craft

From Podcast to Bestselling Book: How to Use Audio to Refine Your Book’s Message With Asheritah Ciuciu

By Thomas Umstattd, Jr.on November 14, 2023
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  Did you know I used to run a publishing company? When I was in college, I developed a business plan in my entrepreneurship class and launched it as a real business. The company was called Brook Audio, and we published public-domain audiobooks for homeschoolers. The plan for my company was based on my experience as a homeschooler and several observations about homeschoolers: I spent months …

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Title Attachment Disorder

By Dan Balowon November 7, 2023
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Hopefully, when the mental health industrial complex gets around to updating the DSM-5, they will have a section on “Book Title Attachment Disorder.” Symptoms of B-TAD are refusal to listen to reasonable alternatives, applying divine inspiration to a title, and extreme anxiety when someone who titles books as a profession wants to change it. Of course, I am joking. I think. Likely some deeper …

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Category: Book Proposals, Pitching, The Publishing Life, The Writing Life

The Things I Say Most Often About Writing

By Bob Hostetleron November 2, 2023
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I talk a lot about writing. As a writer, yes, but also as a literary agent and speaker at writers conferences. And, yes, sometimes, as the guy at church potlucks who is inept at small talk and sometimes starts sentences with, “Ever wonder what the first person to use the word moist was thinking?” Okay, so now you know a little too much about me. But in my strange mind and varied roles, I do often …

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Category: Book Business, Book Proposals, Encouragement, Pitching, The Writing Life

Helpful Writing Rituals

By Bob Hostetleron October 19, 2023
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I’m a firm believer in helpful habits, systems, and rituals. Such things can grease the writing wheels, so to speak. That may not be the right metaphor; but you catch my drift, right? So not long ago I asked some writer friends (I have friends, I really do. “Mom, they’re picking on me again!”) to tell me about their writing rituals, in the hope that readers of this blog might find the information …

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Category: The Writing Life

Interrupting God

By Dan Balowon October 11, 2023
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I find it humorous when someone brings up a list of questions that they would like to ask God face-to-face when they get a chance. It is funny because the statement assumes that we would have a back-and-forth discussion, as we insert “Yeah, but what about …” between his responses to our questions. If there is a heavenly Q&A opportunity, if indeed we could manage to pick ourselves off the …

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Category: Craft, The Writing Life, Theology
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