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Repeal and Replace

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon April 20, 2017
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Writers live full and demanding lives. Let’s become more focused and productive with my unscientific version of Repeal and Replace!

Repeal: Exhaustion.

Replace: Go to bed earlier. Even fifteen minutes can help. If you like how you feel, shave off a few more minutes until you find that perfect bedtime. The more often enough rest helps you be vibrant the next day, the more you realize how little you need to care about late night comedy shows.

Repeal: Coffee addiction.

Replace: Getting enough rest will help you relish that cup of coffee. There’s a huge difference between “I’ll fall asleep right on the floor and/or kill someone if I don’t have coffee now!” and “I’d love to enjoy a cup of coffee on this beautiful morning.”

Repeal: Sickness.

Replace: Keep up with wellness visits. Many illnesses, such as diabetes and some cancers, have few or no early symptoms.

Young people need wellness visits, too, partly because as a group, Gen Xers and Millenials are at increased risk for colon cancer. 

The earlier you catch any problem, the easier it is to address. Even better, vaccinations for adults, such as for Shingles, are now available. Yes, I’ve had mine.

Too expensive? It’s cheaper to go for checkups now than to stop everything to cure illness later. For instance, get symptom-free high blood pressure and cholesterol under control now to prevent a heart attack, which could require costly treatment, including surgery.

Don’t have time? If you think you’re too busy to go to the doctor today, imagine how much more intrusive to your life – and your family’s – it would be to drop everything for emergency surgery at an unspecified future date. To follow up after a heart attack, you’ll likely be under the care of yet another doctor, (a cardiologist), and self-care afterwards is time-consuming. Not to mention the emotional toll a close call with death will take on you and those you love.

Some illnesses, such as diabetes, affect other organs. Left untreated for diabetes, you’ll likely end up learning about other doctors, such as a nephrologist. Ordering “diabetic” shoes takes weeks and requires several appointments with yet another doctor. So now you have to visit at least three doctors.

So are you sure you don’t have time today?

Consider the following wellness visits:

Primary care physician: Overall health. Please see this doctor as a minimum.

Dentist: Prevent tooth decay, pain, and gum disease. (Don’t let fear keep you away from the dentist for forty years, as it has one of my acquaintances. Trust me, novacaine needles have gotten WAY smaller than they were decades ago.)

Gynocologist: Some women’s ailments are symptom-free at first. I have convinced many of the women in my life to get the newer 3D mammograms.

Eye doctor: Not only do you want to keep your vision in check, but issues such as glaucoma are best caught early. Some people develop cataracts in their forties.

Dermotologist: See this doctor especially if you spend a lot of time in the sun, or did as a teenager. I’m happy indoors all year long, but I go anyway.

Repeal: Too many demands.

Replace: Learn the word, “No.” That’s right. Let this wonderful one-syllable word fall right from your lips. Use it to avoid activities and obligations that are not necessary and are not your passion or priority. This includes church activities. And yes, you can even decline a request from the pastor, no matter how worthy.

Repeal: Lack of balance.

Replace: Take time for yourself. Even a little each day will help. Find “your” place. This could be a chair in a corner, or maybe you have space to set up a home altar you can view as you think and pray. Even if you can only find ten minutes, stick with it. You need time to collect your thoughts and bring matters to the Lord.

 

Your turn:

What do you want to repeal and replace in your life?

What tips can you offer to help live out priorities and passions?

 

 

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The Danger of Discouragement

By Karen Ballon April 12, 2017
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Some days, I have to admit, it feels like I’ve been working and working, doing everything I’m supposed to, and yet, nothing ever changes—unless it’s for the worse. The struggles are still dragging me down. The sense that no matter what I do, nothing will change, weighs on my spirit. It’s days like that when the questions start… What’s wrong with me that I can’t get anywhere? How can I be losing …

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Category: The Writing Life, TheologyTag: Discouragement, The Writing Life, Theology

At What Point Would an Agent be Interested in an Indie Author?

By Steve Laubeon April 10, 2017
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I am an indie author. I’ve written several novels, some of which have sold well and all of which have *at least* 4.7 stars. Is there a point at which an agent would want to talk to someone like me? When/why might I consider getting an agent? Thanks to Heather for the question! A number of factors play a role in answering this question. (Are you getting tired of my “it depends” answer to all your …

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Category: Agents, Book Proposals, Indie, Pitching, Self-Publishing, The Publishing Life, The Writing LifeTag: Agents, Indie

Tell the Truth

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon April 6, 2017
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I’m writing this post because of inspiration provided by comments from my readers. Thank you, readers! Recently I blogged about seasoning our words with salt. If you haven’t read the comments on that blog, I recommend you do because they are insightful and uplifting. That post referred mainly to social media, but this post applies to all parts of life, and even to some fiction. For example, …

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Category: Social Media, The Writing Life, TheologyTag: Career, The Writing Life

Ignoring the Face of Fear

By Karen Ballon April 5, 2017
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Fear. It’s there, whispering to you in the dark. Telling you you’re wasting your time, that you’ll never make it, that no one cares what you have to say. It eats at you when you try to write, telling you those words you just crafted are garbage. It crawls up your spine when you finally work up the courage to send out a proposal for review, telling you the only response you’ll get is rejection. Or …

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Category: The Writing LifeTag: Fear, The Writing Life

When You’re Too Tired to Be Creative

By Karen Ballon March 29, 2017
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Sleep deprivation is at an all-time high in our nation. So many of us feel tired and drained from the time we crawl out of bed at dawn until we fall back into it late at night. If it’s not a lack of sleep, it’s just being weary or fatigued. Sometimes because of illness, sometimes because of stress, sometimes because of just dealing with an angry and vitriolic nation. I mean, have you EVER seen …

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Category: The Writing LifeTag: exhaustion, Faith, fatigue, Rest, The Writing Life

How To Decide What You Will and Won’t Do with Your Time

By Karen Ballon March 22, 2017
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I hear it all the time: “So many things are vying for my time. How do I decide, and how do I do it all and still write??” Many of us struggle to know what we should be doing with our time. And there are so many things we can do, most of which seem right and noble and even godly, and many of which take time away from being able to do this task of writing. Before you decide where to spend your time, …

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Category: The Writing LifeTag: Faith, The Writing Life, Time Management

Facing Down Obstacles

By Karen Ballon March 15, 2017
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This writing journey is, for many of us, a challenge. There are so many obstacles to doing what we believe God has asked us to do through our writing. Everyday distractions, family issues, illness, grief, and on and on the list goes. Things that we can’t control come charging in to derail our work and efforts. So what can we do about it? Here’s one thing—in fact, I believe it’s the most important …

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Category: The Writing LifeTag: The Writing Life

Fake News and the Christian Author

By Dan Balowon March 14, 2017
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Most book authors do not work their way up through the ranks beginning with a college degree in journalism. Because of this, many have no exposure to the best practices of career writers and journalists. Sure, book authors might be very creative, insightful and able to recite large sections of Strunk & White or the Chicago Manual of Style, but they are not as familiar with what makes for a …

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Category: Editing, Legal Issues, The Writing LifeTag: Journalism, Research, The Writing Life

Author Platforms Can Destroy Your Life (aka Making Money from Friends)

By Dan Balowon March 7, 2017
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American society contains a very interesting subculture built around using your friends and relatives to make money, either as a primary or secondary source of income. I must admit it bothers me when an individual will view those around them mainly as a revenue source instead of relationships to experience and serve. It is also interesting that a number of the most successful multi-level marketing …

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Category: Book Business, Branding, Marketing, Platform, Self-Publishing, Social Media, The Writing LifeTag: Book Business, Marketing, Platform
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