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The Dark Side of Silence

By Karen Ballon July 6, 2016
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It took me a long time to be comfortable with silence. I am, in essence, a Golden Retriever crossed with an otter, so I’m all about fun, fun, fun! I gotta play, gotta move, gotta be in the middle of whatever is happening. Whee! Ain’t life a barrel of puppies??

But plunk me down to sit still and be silent? AAAHHHHH!

I used to think I was alone in fidgeting when it got too quiet.  As for flat-out silence, I knew everyone else was okay with it while it drove me to…well…noise. But since jumping into the publishing world lo, these many years ago, I’ve realized I’m not only not alone, it’s downright crowded in the noisy places!

Now, I’m not talking about the silence we writers deal with when we write. That doesn’t feel silent because there’s so much going on as we create.  I’m talking about S I L E N C E.  An absence of sound. Even worse, an absence of input. Friends, I’m here to warn you about the dark side of silence. I’m here to warn you about cavitation.

Ever been out in a boat run by an outboard motor? Your Evinrude is propelling you along, sending you sailing over the waves, and then wham! It’s like you’re suddenly suspended, going nowhere. Enter cavitation. The outboard’s blades have encountered a momentary void and are spinning like crazy but not accomplishing anything. We tend toward cavitation when we encounter silence in our writing journey.

Like when your agent has sent a proposal out and it’s been months and NO ONE has responded. Or you put out a blog post or comment on social media and the result is a resounding NOTHING. You know what I’m talking about. Those silent places where we convince ourselves that the meaning of the silence is that we’re hacks, that we’re not doing things right, that we never should have thought we could write and why did we ever quit our jobs?? Mama was right: I shoulda been a secretary! Or a doctor! Wait, maybe I need to send out another proposal, cuz if they don’t like that one, they’ll like this one. Igottadosomethingthissilenceiskillingme!

Okay. Deep breath. Say it with me: “Silence is good.” Yes, it is. Now, stop disagreeing with me! Silence is your friend. It reminds you to stop for a moment and be still. Yes, be still. Relax. Give yourself a break. Take an honest look and determine if you’ve done all you can about that proposal or post or whatever. If not, fine. Make a strategic plan for doing better. If so, let it go. And move on to the next task, but do so with a calm spirit.

Let the silences work for you, not against you. You’ll enjoy the journey a whole lot more, and you won’t drive yourself—and the people around you–crazy.

Peace.

 

 

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Category: Creativity, The Writing LifeTag: Silence, The Writing Life

What Editors Wish You Knew about Meeting with Them at Conferences

By Karen Ballon June 29, 2016
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Thanks to Becky McCoy for requesting advice for conference meetings with agents and editors at conferences. You can find a lot of counsel for meeting with agents on the different agency blogs, but I thought I’d supplement those posts with advice from some of the in-house editors you’ll find at this years’ conferences. So I emailed said editors and asked them to share their wishes with you. Here …

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Category: ConferencesTag: Pitching

Inspiration or Perspiration?

By Steve Laubeon June 27, 2016
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Thomas Edison was to have said that “Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration.” Apparently he made 1,000 failed attempts to invent the light bulb. After accomplishing it he was asked about all the previous failures. Edison replied, “I didn’t fail 1,000 times. The light bulb was an invention with 1,000 steps.” The exercise of writing can be somewhat similar. If you …

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Category: Career, Craft, Creativity, Editing, The Writing LifeTag: perseverance, The Writing Life

Show Off Your Emotions!

By Karen Ballon June 22, 2016
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You’ve heard it over and over: Show, don’t tell. Well, I agree with that sentiment when it comes to important emotional scenes. Fiction, nonfiction, doesn’t matter. If you want to stir your readers, learn to show powerful emotions. As I thought about this blog, though, I figured you all don’t need yet another how to. Instead, I want to challenge you to share the most powerful emotion you felt this …

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Category: Craft, Writing CraftTag: Craft, Emotions, show don't tell, Writing Craft

Once You’re at the Conference…

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon June 9, 2016
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Conferences are fun and busy. Here are some tips on how to enjoy them even more! Be Mindful of What You Eat Since many conferences have plenty of delicious food, it’s easy to overindulge. I find that if I don’t overeat, I feel better. It’s extremely important for those with allergies to avoid food with mysterious ingredients. You don’t want to find out too late that you accidentally ate a food …

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Category: Conferences, Get PublishedTag: Get Published, writers conferences

Reaching a New Generation of Readers

By Steve Laubeon June 6, 2016
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Last Friday I posted a fun song about Millennials. Earlier this year a number of articles told of a Pew Research report that declared there are more Millennials in America than Baby Boomers. There are now over 75 million people ages 18-34. Boomers (ages 51-69) are no longer the largest demographic. (And there are more 22-years-olds today than any other age group.) This was inevitable, of course, …

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Category: Book Business, Career, Creativity, TrendsTag: Book Business, Career, readers, Trends

Preparing for a Conference

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon June 2, 2016
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When getting ready for a conference, writers agonize over creating the perfect one-sheet sales pitch, polishing manuscripts, and how they’ll conduct themselves when meeting with agents and editors. But not every preparation is writing-related. I’ve been on faculty at many conferences and I’ve learned a few tricks to help make each conference a happier one. Get plenty of rest before the conference …

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Category: Conferences, Get PublishedTag: Get Published, Preparation, writers conferences

How To Make Agents’ Blogs Work for You

By Karen Ballon June 1, 2016
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We at the agency love it that so many of you come here every day and read what we share with you. And we do everything we can to ensure that what we share here informs, enlightens, and uplifts you brave souls navigating the publishing world. So last week, when I read some of the questions you’d like addressed, I thought I’d give you a tip on using this blog to its best advantage. And that tip is: …

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Category: Agency, ConferencesTag: Agency, Blog, questions, Research

The Blue Ridge Writers Conference 2016

By Steve Laubeon May 30, 2016
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Last week was spent in beautiful mountains of North Carolina at the Blue Ridge Christian Writers Conference at Ridgecrest. Since I wrote in my last blog about why I go to a conference I thought it might be interesting to run those four points against last week’s experience. Teaching This was answered with a resounding yes! I taught three elective classes (on what an agent does, on contracts, and …

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The Right Number of Words

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon May 26, 2016
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More times than I’d like, my office must send out letters advising aspiring authors that their manuscripts are too short or too long. Much of the time, the author is talented but hasn’t investigated the market well enough to know if the word count is right. Submitting a project that’s simply the wrong word count wastes everyone’s time – including yours. If we mention that your book is the wrong …

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Category: Book Proposals, Craft, Get Published, Rejection, Writing CraftTag: book proposals, Get Published, word count
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