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Letters I Hate Writing and Letters I Love Writing

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon May 6, 2026
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At my office, we make every effort to respond to serious queries and proposals. Now, maybe the manufacturer of metal pins based in another country is serious, but we send those emails to the trash bin. Or more accurately, the image of a trash bin on the computer. At least that trash bin doesn’t require Hefty citrus-scented trash bags and is in no danger of attracting hungry bears. And by the way, I’ll never understand how or why the metal pin manufacturer found us, or why they think we’re in the market for such an item, since we construct books, not houses.

But I digress.

I HATE Writing…

My least favorite to write is always a rejection letter. Sending declines even for wildly unsuitable submissions is painful, because that author is trying.

Some authors ask for more feedback, but we don’t offer additional input on a firm decline. Why? Because another agent may LOVE what the author has written exactly as it appears and knows an editor asking for that type of project.

If you’re getting rejection letters, persevere and consider any feedback, even if you don’t agree. You can choose to incorporate feedback, keep trying other agents, or both.

And by the way? When an agent does offer advice, follow up because the back and forth may lead to an agreement for you to work together.

I LOVE Writing…

My favorite letters to write are pitch letters. I relish the chance to praise my clients. I can go on forever about how their writing is prize-worthy, and how wonderful they are as people and professionals. I’m just a bit partial, but I think my writers have the sweetest and most beautiful spirits in the industry.

Writing letters of praise may sound superfluous, but think about Proverbs 27:2:

Let another man praise thee, and not thine own mouth; a stranger, and not thine own lips. (KJV)

My letters to editors on behalf of my writers show I support them and that I have every faith and confidence that the publisher will be successful with their work. After all, I signed the author. An agented author has shown the ability to garner an agent’s confidence. The author doesn’t have to say the equivalent of “I’m the best ever!” because we can instead!

Your turn: What’s the best feedback you’ve received? The kindest rejection letter?

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Ask a Literary Agent: Writing Q&A With Steve Laube – Free Webinar, May 13th

By Steve Laubeon May 5, 2026
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Thomas Umstattd, Jr. and I have periodically come together to discuss various topics related to the book world. We are going to do it again! I don’t want you to miss out on the FREE webinar. Date: Wednesday, May 13 Time: 5 p.m. (Eastern Time) We are planning an hour or more of conversation on the questions most pressing to writers and a little about my new book, Sacred Margins, which …

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Category: Agents, Book Business, Marketing, The Writing LifeTag: Book Launch

Monday Moments – May 4, 2026

By Steve Laubeon May 4, 2026
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Today’s moment is the third in a series of brief meditations I’ve created based on my new book, Sacred Margins: On the Spiritual Life of a Writer. Let me know your thoughts in the comments. The transcript of the video is below. If you cannot see the video, click through to our website or to YouTube, where you can view it. The book itself will be released on May 19th in paperback, ebook, and …

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Category: Monday Moments

Fun Fridays – May 1, 2026

By Steve Laubeon May 1, 2026
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Gotta get me one of these! [If you cannot see today’s video in your newsletter feed, please click through to view it on our site.]

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Category: Fun FridaysTag: Fun, Kindle

The Inciting Incident (Part Three)

By Lynette Easonon April 29, 2026
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We’ve covered a lot of ground in this series. You now know what the inciting incident is. You know what it must do. So, let’s wrap up this series by talking about what goes wrong—and how to get it right in your manuscript. The Four Biggest Mistakes Writers Make with the Inciting Incident Mistake #1: Confusing the Hook with the Inciting Incident This is one of the most common mistakes I …

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5 Questions Your Proposal Must Answer: Question 3

By Steve Laubeon April 27, 2026
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How Is Your Book Different (And Is It Different Enough)? Originality is often misunderstood. Your book does not need to say something no one has ever said before. In most categories, that would be nearly impossible. (“There is nothing new under the sun,” Ecclesiastes 1:9). However, it must say something in a way that feels unique, timely, or even timeless. Publishers evaluate proposals within a …

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Category: 5 Questions Every Proposal Must Answer, Book Proposals

Fun Fridays – April 24, 2026

By Steve Laubeon April 24, 2026
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Today’s video is quite unusual. Watch an artist who uses a hammer on glass to create portraits. You have to see it to believe it. I am constantly amazed by the outrageous creativity of the human mind. Whether one will acknowledge it or not, we are made in the image of God. And, therefore, to quote Tolkien, we can become sub-creators in our art. To quote David Downing, from his excellent …

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Also, Stop Doing These Things

By Dan Balowon April 23, 2026
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When attending a conference, class, or seminar, I’ve disciplined myself over the years to not only take notes but also turn what I learn into action items. I’ll jot down something from the presenter, then create an action point and circle it in my notes so I don’t forget. Once in a while, I’ll even put something down that I need to stop doing. In a similar vein, fellow agent Bob Hostetler wrote …

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Category: Conferences, Platform, The Writing Life

Why I Decline

By Bob Hostetleron April 22, 2026
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Yes, the life of a literary agent is idyllic. Working with brilliant writers. Rubbing shoulders with powerful editors and publishers. And cashing the big fat commission checks. Yes, that’s how it is. Except that sometimes a literary agent has to read submissions, looking for that rare jewel that will produce another bestseller, another classic, another big fat commission check. Alas, those moments …

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Category: Book Proposals, Pitching

5 Questions Your Proposal Must Answer: Question 2

By Steve Laubeon April 20, 2026
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Is Your Idea a Book or a Magazine Article? Not every good idea is a book-length idea. This can be a challenge for any writer to accept. A nonfiction book requires breadth, depth, and durability. It must sustain a reader’s attention over 40,000 to 60,000 words (or more) without thinning out or repeating itself. Many proposals begin with a compelling premise; but when examined closely, they …

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Category: 5 Questions Every Proposal Must Answer, Book Proposals
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