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Ready for Pushback?

By Dan Balowon April 22, 2021
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Do not be surprised, my brothers and sisters, if the world hates you (1 John 3:13, NIV).

One of the lovely aspects (I’m kidding) of ubiquitous communication in our world today is that nothing goes out without a comment in return. Positive and negative comments abound. Something written in passing or as an afterthought is met with an explosion of reaction.

A single bad review from a book reviewer pales in comparison to a Twitter mob deciding something you wrote eight years ago should be accelerated into a career-ending event.

The writer’s life just became a circus.

When George Bernard Shaw, the late British playwright wrote “A dramatic critic is one who leaves no turn unstoned,” he had no idea what things were going to be like seventy-plus years after he died.

Are you prepared for pushback to what you write? This is another qualifier when you are trying to decide if you are ready to be a published author.

As a Christian writer, you need to have your eyes wide open to the kind of audience you are writing to. And I am not referring only to the unbelievers reading and commenting on what you write.

I’ll ask again, are you ready for the pushback?

Here’s how to handle it:

  1. Don’t be surprised it is happening. (See above verse from 1 John.)
  2. Decide beforehand how you will respond (or not) to criticism.
  3. Practice how you will respond to emails and direct communication.
  4. Practice how you will respond to verbal questions in interviews.
  5. Never, ever apologize for standing up for what is right and biblical.
  6. When the pushback begins, respond slowly and with prayerful thought.
  7. In all, balance grace and truth.

Some Christian authors experience enormous amounts of pushback bordering on persecution, often from people who consider themselves to be Christians.

I can’t think of a type of Christian book that would be immune from all criticism.

“I don’t think you have ever actually lived in an Amish community and driven a horse-drawn carriage. You should be ashamed of yourself. You are a terrible person!”

That comment escalated fast. A lovely note from someone with the spiritual gift of discouragement.

By the way, there is no such thing as having a thick skin for this type of pushback. It is entirely different than the kind of criticism an editor gives to a writer. For that, you need to develop the skill to humbly submit to someone who actually might know more than you about constructing a book.

But the attack for what you write or even who you are is another thing entirely. It will sting, bring tears to your eyes, and make you wonder whether it was worth all the trouble.

Then you remember James, chapter 1:

Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds,because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything (vv. 2-4, NIV).

And finally verse 12:

Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him (NIV).

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Category: Rejection, The Writing Life

The Art of the Soft-Sell

By Dan Balowon April 14, 2021
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“How you sell is more important than what you sell.”– Andy Paul (author, speaker, podcaster) Whether you are traditionally published, self-published, desire-to-be-published, or whatever other combination resides between traditional and self-publishing, you are involved in the lively art of selling. Trying to convince an agent to represent you? Trying to convince a publisher to publish your book? …

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Category: Pitch, The Writing Life

Made for Such a Time

By Dan Balowon April 1, 2021
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Today is a difficult day for Christians as we remember the final full day of Christ’s life before his crucifixion. Deep down, I wish Jesus didn’t have to go through all he did. Reading through the Gospels, it is clear the events of this week were part of a plan and purpose for Jesus living a human existence. He had a unique and stated purpose, even coming right out and saying it numerous times …

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Category: Book Business, Inspiration, Theology

Steps to Writing a Book

By Dan Balowon March 24, 2021
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Each week I attend a Bible study with other men where the only other significant unifying trait is that we are Christians navigating our way through life. Actually, it’s enough. Three of the guys have something else in common. They are accomplished athletes who run, hike, or bike long distances for enjoyment, which would not be my idea of fun. One is a CPA, who ran a qualifying time in his age …

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Category: The Writing Life

Every Book Doesn’t Need to Shake the Earth

By Dan Balowon March 11, 2021
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If you look at any list of best-selling books expecting every one of them to be a literary masterpiece, you are probably setting yourself up for disappointment. “Are you kidding me? A book about famous racehorses of the 20th century is a bestseller? People bought that instead of my 1,200-page book on linguistic anomalies in Hebrew and Greek biblical texts? For Pete’s sake, half of the horse book …

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Category: Encouragement, Inspiration, Pitching, Platform

Identity Publishing

By Dan Balowon March 3, 2021
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A powerful social force in the world today is called “identity politics” (IP). Simply, it divides people by race, gender, economic class, and numerous other factors, creating a large number of micro-groups, each supporting political agendas important to the group. For Christians and the church, commanded by God to live in unity with other believers and be peacemakers with everyone else, IP …

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Category: The Publishing Life, The Writing Life, Theology, Trends

God at Auschwitz

By Dan Balowon February 18, 2021
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Back in 2019, I had the opportunity to travel to a conference in Poland and afterward tour Auschwitz/Birkenau, one of the more infamous Nazi death camps. More than a million people were murdered there at the hands of the SS from 1942 until its liberation by the Russian army in early 1945. The picture I took above shows still-visible fingernail scratches on the wall inside the lone remaining gas …

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Category: Creativity, The Publishing Life, The Writing Life, Theology

God’s Autonomous Zone

By Dan Balowon February 10, 2021
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In the late 17th century, Catholic theologian and scientist Blaise Pascal authored a book titled Pensées. In it, he wrote: What else does this craving, and this helplessness, proclaim but that there was once in man a true happiness, of which all that now remains is the empty print and trace? This he tries in vain to fill with everything around him, seeking in things that are not there the help he …

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Category: Creativity, The Writing Life, Theology, Trends

Banned Books

By Dan Balowon January 28, 2021
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January was a really bad month for Protestant reformer Martin Luther, 500 years ago in 1521. In fact, the entire year was the wurst. (He was German you know.) First, he was excommunicated from the Roman Catholic Church by Pope Leo X after refusing to recant his writings. That was January 3. Then a few weeks later on the 23rd, the RCC held a meeting at The Diet of Worms in Germany, which was the …

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Category: The Publishing Life, The Writing Life, Theology, Trends

Lessons Learned As a Literary Agent

By Dan Balowon October 23, 2018
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Dan is leaving the agency at the end of this month to focus his attention on the work of Gilead Publishing, the company he started in 2016. Here are some parting thoughts. _____ I’ve been a literary agent for about 2,000 of the 13,000 total days spent working with and for book publishers over the last thirty-five years. It’s been a great experience, for sure; but as I look back at the thousands of …

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