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Tamela Hancock Murray

Finding Approval

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon May 7, 2015
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I’ve been in publishing a long time, first as a writer, then as a literary agent. Throughout my journey, I’ve found emotional support and praise from expected quarters and have always been grateful for those people.

But I found no support and even criticism from other quarters. Some of these places weren’t surprising. But when no support came from some other Christians, I felt as though a burning pitchfork seared tender places in my soul.

In my publishing journey, writers shared similar feelings with me. Some said even their pastors derided their work. Should Christians focus their criticism on writers seeking to edify the Christian community? I have a feeling you can guess my opinion, but this blog post is about approval.

Where should Christian authors try to find approval?

In God, of course.

But it still hurts when other Christians don’t approve of our writing because they (we) are God’s representatives on Earth. And just as we may feel hurt when other Christians don’t like our work, we have to admit we have our favorite Christian authors while others don’t seem to reach us.

What to do?

Keep writing.

Keep reading.

Keep edifying.

All of us are in different places in our spiritual walks. Rather than worrying about what certain readers think of our books, let your words touch those who are willing to be touched. You may well be surprised and pleased by the result.

Your turn:

What comments have you received about your work that have surprised and pleased you?

Have you made a pleasant comment about an author’s work that seemed especially to please him or her?

What book by a living author has made an impact on your life? Did you contact the author?

 

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A Definition of a Successful Artist

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon April 30, 2015
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Recently I witnessed an artist (not a writer) put work out to the public that I believe needed some polish. Some of my close family and I agreed that it shouldn’t have been released without being improved first. However, this artist was being cheered by intimate friends and family. I’m not positive all of these people actually like the art itself. I think many of them just want to …

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Category: Art, Awards, Craft, CreativityTag: Art, Career, Success

What Should I Wear to a Conference

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon April 23, 2015
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If you have been following my posts on this blog, you may be aware that this topic was prompted by a question asked on last week’s blog. One of our faithful readers wanted to know what to wear to a major conference. I didn’t intend to devote a complete post to this seemingly shallow topic until the answer she deserved became quite detailed. So here we are. I don’t believe God …

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Category: Career, Conferences, Get PublishedTag: Attire, writers conferences

Conference Travel Mishaps

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon April 16, 2015
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Last week, I listed a few things that can go wrong when you travel to a conference. Today, I’ll offer a few ideas that might help overcome these mishaps. Getting there 1.) The car taking me to the airport doesn’t show up. This has never happened to me, but I know an alternative car service I can call if need be. 2.) I don’t arrive at the airport on time. I always allow much more …

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Category: Conferences, Get PublishedTag: travel, writers conferences

Conference Travel: What Could Go Wrong?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon April 9, 2015
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When traveling to a conference recently, I realized, as I always do when traveling, how many things can go wrong. Such as: Getting there 1.) The car taking me to the airport doesn’t show up. 2,) I don’t arrive at the airport on time. 3.) I accidentally pack something in my suitcase that sets off the airport security alarm. 4.) My flight is delayed. 5.) I miss my flight because of my …

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Category: Conferences, Get PublishedTag: Conferences, travel

Add Something Good for Lent

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon April 2, 2015
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We are nearing the end of the annual season of Lent, a time from Ash Wednesday to Easter Sunday, set aside to prepare and focus believer’s hearts and minds on the death and wonderful resurrection of Jesus. Some use this as a time to forego chocolate or some other pleasure, a sort of fasting from something that matters to them. Ultimately it is the discipline to resist temptation, since Jesus …

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Category: Christian, FaithTag: Faith, lent

For Beginners: Ideas for Managing Social Media

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon March 26, 2015
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One of the most common questions I receive from writers, especially writers just starting to build a platform, is how to handle social media. I don’t claim that my way is the only way or even the best way for everyone, but here are some of my ideas to get you started: Blogs Some writers ask if they should write one blog post a month. The consensus among industry professionals I know is that …

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Category: Branding, Marketing, Platform, Social MediaTag: Marketing, Social Media

Ramp Up That Book Description!

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon March 19, 2015
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Today, let’s try a fun exercise to ramp up your book description in your proposal, which may in turn help your publisher’s marketing team ramp up your book sales! Bland: When a man gives a woman a large ring, she is torn about telling him about her past. What she doesn’t know is that he has a secret, too. Note that this example doesn’t hint at the book’s setting or …

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Category: Book Proposals, Branding, Get Published, MarketingTag: Book Descriptions, book proposals, Marketing

When Not to Respond to a Rejection Letter

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon March 12, 2015
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If you ask an agent the least favorite part of her job, she’ll usually say it’s sending out rejection letters. As an aspiring writer years ago, I saw more rejection letters than I care to recall. Still, I can’t remember one that wasn’t nice. Some were even helpful. Back then, you had to kill trees and use at least one postage stamp, or run up a long distance phone bill …

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Category: Get Published, RejectionTag: Get Published, Rejection, rejection letters

Your Conflicted Characters

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon March 5, 2015
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I am blessed to work with many talented authors with great ideas. Recently one of my clients, Renee Andrews,  submitted a wonderful chart outlining her characters’ conflicts. You may have seen similar charts before, but I especially like the way Renee laid hers out: [Character Name] INTERNAL EXTERNAL Goal — What? Motivation — Why? Conflict — Why not? Renee is a very successful author at the …

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Category: Craft, Get Published, Writing CraftTag: Characters, Writing Craft
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