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When Your Agent Appointment Flops

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon July 17, 2014
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In keeping with my conference posts, I want to talk a little today about agent appointments. I’ll use agents as the example for brevity but this post can also apply to editor appointments. That is, what if the agent or editor doesn’t like your work?

Don’t despair. Seriously. Here’s why:

1.) If you feel you stuttered or stammered, or otherwise weren’t at your best, don’t worry. The best agents realize few readers will meet authors in person, so a poor verbal presentation shouldn’t work against you. You will be judged on your writing, because that’s what the reader will see. If the agent asks for your work, send it, no matter how badly you feel you presented yourself.

2.) If the work isn’t to the agent’s taste, it’s best to learn that now rather than later. Many authors interview a number of agents before deciding on which agent is the best fit.

3.) If the agent doesn’t seem enthusiastic but offers advice, consider it. That advice alone could be worth the cost of going to the conference.

4.) You can submit another work, or an improved version of your current work, later. Remind the agent you met at conference, and then most agents will extend the courtesy of a thorough review.

All appointments are learning experiences, even those during which the agent declines.

Your turn:

Have you had a disastrous conference appointment? What did you learn from it?

After the initial disappointment, in hindsight, were you glad your work was declined? Why?

What is the best thing that happened to you during a conference appointment?

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Category: ConferencesTag: Agents, Appointments, writers conferences

Making Friends at a Writers Conference

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon July 10, 2014
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Conference time is exciting for everyone, especially those who are looking forward to meeting people they’ve only met over the Internet and reconnecting with old friends. For certain, strengthening relationships is one of the best benefits of any conference. But what about the person who’s new, who hasn’t had a chance to make lots of friends yet? What about the shy person who …

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Category: ConferencesTag: Friends, writers conferences

Yes I Said That, But…

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon July 3, 2014
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In light of the fact that many of us are getting ready to go to conferences, or have just been to conferences, I thought I’d spend the next couple of blog posts on conferences. Today I’d like to talk about what you hear, what you think you hear, and applying what you hear. I love talking to writers and I love it even more when all of my appointment slots are filled at a conference. …

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Category: Conferences

Do You Have a Great Title for Your Book?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon June 26, 2014
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Several years ago, one of my daughters entered a photography contest at her school. One of her entries pictured our cat sitting with a plastic bag wrapped around her feet. We never will know how or why our cat did this — the pose just happened. We titled the funny picture, “Cat’s Out of the Bag!” But then we discovered the rules didn’t allow photographs to be titled. …

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Category: Book Proposals, Craft, Tamela, Writing CraftTag: Craft, Titles, Writing Craft

A Matter of Experience

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon June 19, 2014
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Sometimes I’ll have one of those days where I’m minding my own business, when I pick up the phone to discover the author on the other end of the line is irate. (No, this is not a rerun of an article from the 20th century. I do still have a land line for my office). “Ohhh, Tamela! I know that Hell is indeed located on Earth and where is it? It’s at my publisher’s …

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Category: Book Business, Career, Communication, Tamela, The Publishing LifeTag: Book Business, Career, publishing, The Publishing Life

A Favorite Character Trait

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon June 12, 2014
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When I was younger, I felt that some of my friends allowed me to take on a disproportionate amount of expense when we did things together. Sometimes, I felt taken advantage of, even used. Now I don’t feel that way. Probably because I now have super friends and I have more money. But still, I had to learn how to navigate these minefields because I didn’t know how. Why? Because I was …

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Category: Personal, TamelaTag: Personal

Where are the Worthy Characters?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon June 5, 2014
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I just finished reading a general market novel that left me wishing I had used that time to read a good Christian novel instead. I am not going to name the book because it isn’t my intent to offer a review. But the novel reminds me of many others in the general market. Well-written, well-received, heavy with social commentary. And populated with characters I didn’t like and …

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Category: Craft, Reading, TamelaTag: Characters, Craft, Reading

Why You Shouldn’t Be Depressed by Facebook

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon May 29, 2014
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Lately I’ve been seeing articles about how some people find personal status updates on Facebook and other social media depressing. Apparently people put on their best “faces” so their lives seem better than yours. Most of these articles aren’t written from a Christian perspective, so they ignore the fact that most of us ask for prayer through social media. Truly, this is a …

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Category: Book Business, Career, Social Media, TamelaTag: Facebook, Social Media

How Do You Define Summer Reading?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon May 22, 2014
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Now that summer is nigh, I’m thinking about what I’d like to read over the next few months. I have not yet decided. But at least now I can choose for myself. At my college prep school, we were assigned summer reading. To enter eighth grade, we were assigned The Ox Bow Incident and Pride and Prejudice. This went for boys and girls. I’m so glad, because I never would have read The …

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Category: Craft, Creativity, Personal, Reading, Tamela, Writing CraftTag: Reading

What is the Message in the Books You Read or Write?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon May 15, 2014
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Christian works are, by their nature, message-oriented. With our novels, we strive to present a great story first and foremost, but we also want to weave in a strong spiritual message. Writers’ varying personalities determine their specific outreach. Some of us want to edify the faithful, offering hope to the Christian swimmer navigating a sea filled with glass shards. Others among us want …

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Category: Communication, Craft, Creativity, Tamela, Writing CraftTag: Communication, Craft, Message, Writing Craft
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