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Clear Your Brain!

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon December 5, 2013
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Panorama of a sunset on a lake

When I talk to writers about the day-to-day operations of my office, I usually mention weekends. And that we have them.

I make an effort to stay away from the computer for business on the weekends unless there is some urgent reason to do otherwise. This may sound selfish, and perhaps it is. But I also try not to bother my clients on the weekends because I want them to have weekends, too. Writers tend to pay attention when an email from their agent arrives, and I want them to be free not to think of business on the weekends.

I understand that many writers have other jobs and commitments and that may mean Sundays are their only time to write. But I hope these writers will choose another time or day to take off. Why not Tuesday? Or maybe Saturday.

Here’s why:

I need at least a day or two every week just to live. “Living” means going to the library, picking up dry cleaning, buying groceries, getting the car washed. You know, the things everyone needs to do to function as a human. It also means fun things such as attending parties or discovering a new restaurant, as my husband and I did on a recent weekend.

If you don’t take any time off and change your activities, your brain never clears. If every day is a business day, all things become blurred.

Clearing your brain can involve activities such as polishing furniture, another recent weekend accomplishment. In other words, doing something more physical than sitting at a desk gives you a different sense of accomplishment. Then the next workday, you can approach your computer with a fresh perspective. Who knows? Maybe one of your characters will have an epiphany while polishing furniture.

Your turn:

How do you change your activities to clear your brain?

Do you write to put off chores, or put off chores to write?

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Category: Career, Creativity, TamelaTag: Career

Thankful for You!

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon November 28, 2013
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I have many people and circumstances to be thankful for but on this Thanksgiving Day, I am going to focus on you, our blog readers.

Thank you for being faithful to stop by every weekday, not only to see my posts, but the posts by Steve, Dan, and Karen. I can safely say all of us hope we edify and inform you -- and even entertain you once in awhile.

Thank you for having the courage to make …

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Category: Personal, TamelaTag: thanksgiving

Why Not Take a Chance?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon November 7, 2013
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Often I receive queries and proposals in which the author will say his submission is out of the box. I'm not opposed to groundbreaking work, but I have to decide what will and what won't work for me. I am the first to admit, this process is subjective. Our own Steve Laube is routinely teased by a couple of his successful author friends he turned down. If an agent as wise as Steve Laube misses a …

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Category: Agents, Book Business, Book Proposals, Get Published, Platform, TamelaTag: Agents, book proposals, Editors, Get Published

Five Myths About an Agent’s Rejection

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon October 31, 2013
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1.) The agent hates me. Unless you approached her and said something along the lines of, "You and your kids are ugly and you have lousy taste in manuscripts," a rejection shouldn't be personal.

But if you are worried that you unintentionally offended an agent or other publishing professional, take action. Email to let him know you have been worried about why you may have been the cause of …

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Category: Book Proposals, Conferences, Craft, Get Published, Rejection, Tamela, Writing CraftTag: Agents, Get Published, Rejection

My Amazing Fake Day

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon October 24, 2013
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I've been intrigued by some blogs and articles about how Facebook makes people depressed because everyone else's lives seem so perfect. I hope that no one thinks the sum of my life is reflected in two recent Facebook posts that my uncle killed a bear on our family farm in Southern Virginia and here in Northern Virginia, we are host a family of walking stick bugs. I took great comfort in the …

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Category: Communication, Craft, Humor, Social Media, Tamela, Writing CraftTag: Facebook, Humor, Social Media, Twitter

You Are Essential

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon October 17, 2013
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On Sunday our pastor's sermon was on 1 Corinthians 12:12-27. Although in this passage, St. Paul writes about how each person is a special part of the body of Christ, with a comparison to how all the parts of the human body work together, I couldn't help but think of how essential we all are to the publishing process:

Writers: Without authors' creativity and courage, no one would have a book to …

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Category: Book Business, Career, Editing, Get Published, Tamela, The Publishing Life, Writing CraftTag: Book Business, publishing

Are You Ready to be a Pro?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon October 10, 2013
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What if you developed a great hobby you really loved? Say, baking cakes. You bake a creative cake for your child's birthday party, and everyone oohs and ahhs. Then you bake another fabulous cake for your husband's birthday. More oohing and ahhing. And so on. Until a party guest says, "Hey, you could make real money doing this. I'll be your first customer."

You agree. You bake the cake and buy a …

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Category: Book Business, Career, Tamela, Writing CraftTag: Book Business, Career

Genre Hopping

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon October 3, 2013
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An author recently posed a question to us through our question button (in the right column on the blog page). We like when authors do this, so please feel free to use the button!

While everyone's situation is different, the elements of the question are relevant to many so I'm addressing those today.
I have a question about genre hopping. I have a non-fiction book geared for parents of teens …

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Category: Book Business, Book Proposals, Career, Genre, Tamela, Writing CraftTag: Career, Genre, Writing Craft

One Word to Increase Your Conference Enjoyment

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon September 26, 2013
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  The past couple of conferences I attended felt more relaxed. Of course, “relaxed” is a relative term in relation to conferences. I am so very grateful that people want to see me, talk to me, meet with me, dine with me. Don’t go away! Without you, I wouldn’t be blessed with this career. Thank you. But I talked to a couple of people at ACFW who admitted to me that they …

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Category: Conferences, Get Published, Personal, Tamela, Writing CraftTag: Get Published, writers conferences

The Drama of the Unexpected

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon September 19, 2013
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After such excitement, I was ready to go home and relax, then get back into my office routine and the new adventure of living as an empty nester with my husband, John. He has worked as a civilian at the Department of Defense for 33 years and is now the Deputy Director of Contract Policy for the Naval Sea Systems Command.

I am writing this post on Monday night, the day of the …

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Category: Conferences, Personal, TamelaTag: ACFW, Personal, writers conferences
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