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Avoid Trashing a Book Online

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon August 29, 2013
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When I’m thinking of buying a book, I do read the one-star reviews. There. I admitted it. But would I write one? No, and here are three reasons why:

The author is not a moneymaking machine, but a human. A mean reviewer won’t see the fallout of posting a nasty review, but writers cry, get angry, sulk and fall into depressions over one-star reviews. It’s not fair to use the Internet to vent at a target you think is safe because you are in a bad mood that day or just angry in general. I know I’m preaching to the proverbial choir because I don’t sense angry dispositions among our regular blog readers, but we’ve all seen reviews from people who need a chill pill. If a book happens to hit all your HATE IT buttons, take your chill pill before bequeathing a one-star review. Wait a day or two before spouting off. Or better yet, don’t.

Reviews are read by the author’s publishing team. I don’t believe one bad review will keep an author from gaining her next contract. But it doesn’t help, even though the publishing team possesses discernment in assessing the merit of all reviews. An author drafting his friends and family to give nothing but five-star reviews may bring up the idea that only the author’s friends are reading the book. And speaking of the publishing team…

A bad review insults everyone involved in the book, not just the author. This is a point especially to consider if you are a writer. The publisher and author are obvious, but it will be hard for you to find out who’s editing what. If you unwittingly insult most of the books edited by Mr. Major Editor, how likely is he to buy your precious words, no matter how many times he has lunch with Your Big-Time Agent?

If you don’t normally read the genre and find you don’t care for the book, why trash it? Some reviewers will admit they usually don’t read a certain type of book and proceed to criticize everything about it. I suggest chalking it up to a learning experience and saving vitriol for books you really know about.

But what if a book really and truly deserves a bad review? Find out what to do on next week’s post.

Your turn:

Do book reviews influence your book-buying choices?

Have your feelings ever been hurt by a review?

What have you learned from bad reviews, either as a reader or writer?

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Category: Career, Reading, Reviews, TamelaTag: Reading, reviews

Success! Now What?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon August 22, 2013
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Christian publishing professionals want to honor God with success. Sometimes God grants recognition quickly. Other times, He does not. And since Christians are human, it's hard not to be a little jealous of acclaimed authors.

But what about success? Are you ready for it?

Here are just a few concerns I've seen from various published authors:

1.) I'm nervous about my advance. What if I …

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Category: Book Business, Career, TamelaTag: Book Business, Career, Success

Preach it! (or Not)

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon August 15, 2013
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Last summer my family and I flew to South Korea and back so we needed to fill several hours with entertainment. Korean Air provides a selection of movies, so I decided to view "Gentleman's Agreement" since I'd never seen this classic film.

I knew the story addressed the evils of anti-semitism. Of course, I am opposed to anti-semitism so I have no problem with a story coming from this viewpoint. …

Read morePreach it! (or Not)
Category: Craft, Creativity, Editing, Tamela, Writing CraftTag: Craft, Creativity, Preaching, Writing Craft

Do You Give Them What They Really Want?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon August 8, 2013
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Last weekend, my husband and I attended a family wedding in Pigeon Forge, Tennessee. Though we didn't have a chance to do much touring, we did drive through the town and neighboring Gatlinburg. We noticed that the shops, amusements, and attractions reminded us of another vacation spot we enjoy, Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. Except we were in the beautiful Smoky Mountains rather than at the sunny …

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Category: Craft, Creativity, Genre, Romance, TamelaTag: fiction, Genre

Where Do You Want to Go?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon August 1, 2013
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Earlier this week, my husband and I were watching American Pickers on The History Channel. For those who aren’t familiar with the show, it depicts the adventures of two businessmen who buy historical items from collectors. This occupation rarely takes them to pristine locations since they often find their treasures in neglected yards and storage sheds. This week, a declaration from Mike …

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Category: Personal, TamelaTag: Location, Personal

Blogging Success

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon July 25, 2013
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Last week, I had a lot of fun reading the responses to my post on men versus women getting ready for travel. I appreciate my husband's sense of humor in not minding that I posted it, and in reality, I give him credit for taking care of our little family all the time.

In response to that post, I received a private email asking how we built our successful blog. Obviously, ours is only one of many …

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Category: Branding, Marketing, TamelaTag: blogging, Platform, Social Media

Travel: The Businessman versus the Businesswoman

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon July 18, 2013
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I thought I'd have a little fun today with the differences we experience in our house when getting ready for a business trip.

My husband preparing for travel:
1.) Make sure hair is freshly cut.
2.) The night before, pack bags. Wife has already ironed shirts and will be folding them to pack.
Me preparing for travel:
1.) Wash all clothes down to the last item so family will have clean laundry …

Read moreTravel: The Businessman versus the Businesswoman
Category: Humor, TamelaTag: Humor, travel

Quit Your Day Job?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon June 27, 2013
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Writers spend much time and effort creating books, and those who are serious about making a living -- or at least supplementing household income -- invariably reach the proverbial fork in the road when they must ask, "Do I have what it takes?" If you have reached this point, here are a few questions you may find helpful:
1.) Are you willing to rise every morning to face a blank computer screen or …

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Category: Book Business, Career, TamelaTag: Career, Full-time writing

Meaningful Feedback

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon June 20, 2013
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My family recently attended an annual one-man art exhibition by my uncle, Eldridge Bagley, at the Glave Kocen Gallery in Richmond, Virginia. Because my daughter, Ann, enjoys photography, I encouraged her to ask the gallery director his opinion of her work. He liked several of her photos, and guided her on which types of images would sell in Richmond versus which would be more appealing to buyers …

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Category: Art, Communication, TamelaTag: Critique, Get Published

Really, You Don’t Have to Ask

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon June 13, 2013
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Over the years I've seen lists of questions you're supposed to ask an agent before signing a contract. Some of the questions are excellent. But I believe if you ask others, at least at the stage when the agent is discussing the possibility of representation, you may have not done the right research ahead of time. I culled these questions from a number of lists on the Internet. Most of these …

Read moreReally, You Don’t Have to Ask
Category: Agents, Book Business, Communication, Get Published, TamelaTag: Agents, Find an Agent, Get Published
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