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Tools from the Front Lines of Life: Authenticity

By Karen Ballon March 25, 2015
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Some things have happened in my life in the last few months that, were I to put them in a novel, readers would say, “That’s just not believable. No way all that happens to one person!”

Yeah. Wouldn’t that be nice?

But here’s the thing: Hard times, good times…struggles, peace…abundance, desperate lack…sorrow, joy…

It’s all gold for writers.

Now, I’m not saying to go out there and experience every terrible thing in life can so you can write about it. But when the terrible things come, when the times of rejoicing arrive…be present. Open your eyes to what God has for you in those moments. Because friends, when we go through the fires, we learn a lot. About ourselves. About faith. About others. And we can use it all as we write.

So for the next few weeks, I want to talk about some of those tools. The first of which is authenticity.

Webster’s defines authenticity this way: the quality of being authentic. (Really, Webster’s? So not helpful. Reminds me of the time Brandilyn Collins, at an ACFW conference, called her mother the doyenne of ACFW. Never having heard that word before, I pulled up Webster’s and searched, only to receive this definition: the feminine form of doyen. Who knew Webster was a comedian?? But I digress.)

The second definition is far more helpful: the quality of being authoritative, valid, true, real, or genuine.

How often have you read a book that handled a deep or difficult issue with a platitude or an easy answer? Or started reading a book only to set it aside thinking, “That author hasn’t got a clue.”? Those who have been in the dark places know when a “poser” steps in. And they have little patience for them or their easy answers.

Authenticity, on the other hand, gives our writing power. When we come from a place of soul-deep understanding…a place of compassion and empathy because we’ve been there…our words will resonate with the readers. Because they’ll know we understand.

Whatever you’re writing, take hold of the tool of authenticity. Be willing to be vulnerable–to share the good, the bad, and the “I-was-stunned-to-realize-I-could-do-something-like-that”—with your readers. Don’t let fear or pride or any other obstacle keep you from offering the best you have to give: words bathed in God and surrendered to the lessons He’s taught you. When we do that, we give our readers more than just good fiction or encouraging nonfiction. We give them our hearts. We give them honesty. And depth. And the knowledge that they’re not alone.

We give them hope.

And it doesn’t get any better than that.

 

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Category: Career, Get Published, The Writing Life, TheologyTag: authenticity, Success, Writing Life

Frankly My Dear, I Ate Some Spam

By Dan Balowon March 24, 2015
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There are a number of things that cause my blood to boil. Radio or TV ads with ten seconds of legalese read at triple speed at the end Coffee mugs in church services Cell phone ringing during a meeting and the person answers it Cell phone ringing in a church service and the person answers it. All political advertising Bicyclists who never obey a single traffic law, ever. Leaky home plumbing. …

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Category: Book Business, Creativity, TrendsTag: Creativity, Trends

Fun Fridays – March 20, 2015

By Steve Laubeon March 20, 2015
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The PianoGuys have done it again. Mashing classical Bach and classic Pop music together. And it works! The original Jackson Five singing “I Want You Back” in 1971. (Yes that was 44 years ago.) Enjoy another piano and cello duet by Bach. The real deal this time:

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Ramp Up That Book Description!

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon March 19, 2015
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Today, let’s try a fun exercise to ramp up your book description in your proposal, which may in turn help your publisher’s marketing team ramp up your book sales! Bland: When a man gives a woman a large ring, she is torn about telling him about her past. What she doesn’t know is that he has a secret, too. Note that this example doesn’t hint at the book’s setting or …

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Category: Book Proposals, Branding, Get Published, MarketingTag: Book Descriptions, book proposals, Marketing

Sky(scraper) Writing

By Dan Balowon March 17, 2015
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Every day, the world is becoming more and more urbanized. In the U.S. while several cities are struggling economically and actually have declining populations, many others are healthy and expanding at an alarming rate. Worldwide, the dramatic population growth areas are around cities. Countries are investing in urban infrastructure, and urging (sometimes requiring) citizens to move to them. If a …

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Category: Trends, Writing CraftTag: Settings, Trends

Fun Friday – March 14, 2015 – Today is an Epic Day – Read why…

By Steve Laubeon March 13, 2015
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Don’t miss out on seeing your clock tomorrow morning… This moment will not happen again for one hundred years. For all you geeks out there….Happy Pi Day tomorrow. (Click here for the one million digits of Pi)

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When Not to Respond to a Rejection Letter

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon March 12, 2015
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If you ask an agent the least favorite part of her job, she’ll usually say it’s sending out rejection letters. As an aspiring writer years ago, I saw more rejection letters than I care to recall. Still, I can’t remember one that wasn’t nice. Some were even helpful. Back then, you had to kill trees and use at least one postage stamp, or run up a long distance phone bill …

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Category: Get Published, RejectionTag: Get Published, Rejection, rejection letters

6 Elements of a Good Book Review

By Karen Ballon March 11, 2015
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In our discussions of late on reviews and authors’ reactions to reviews, I thought it would be helpful to take a look at the elements of a good review. And when I say “good,” I mean helpful. For the readers.  Because that’s what reviews are about. Helping readers decide if this is a book for them. So here are some things, based on book reviews out there, for reviewers to keep in mind. A good …

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Goofus and Gallant Go To A Writer’s Conference

By Dan Balowon March 10, 2015
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Anything that has been around for almost 70 years with a billion copies in print should be used as material for blog posts once in a while. The kid’s magazine Highlights was first published in mid-1946 and was an integral part of the Boomer generation right up to kids currently in first grade in 2015. One of the features in Highlights from the very beginning was a cartoon of Goofus and Gallant, …

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Category: Book Business, Conferences, Get Published, HumorTag: Humor, Writers Conference

Fun Fridays – March 6, 2015

By Steve Laubeon March 6, 2015
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Try this Honda Speed Reading Test. (Then try the one below it and you will be reading at 500 words per minute.) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U8VlX4Ekk80 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7MJcWEeft10

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