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Avoiding the Inferno: Navigating Burnout in the Pursuit of Publishing

By Megan Brownon March 27, 2024
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Let’s sit down for a heart-to-heart about something many of us tend to overlook: burnout. Speaking as a recovering striver who’s donned the hats of a military spouse, mom, and author for the past two decades, I’ve danced dangerously close to the flames of burnout more times than I care to admit. So, grab a cup of coffee, find a quiet corner, and let’s unravel the intricacies of sidestepping burnout while pursuing our publishing goals.

The Crazy Tapestry: Military Life, Motherhood, and Writing

Imagine this: 13 houses, 5 duty stations, 2 PCS moves, a deployment to the Middle East, and a 365-day short tour in Korea without my husband. That’s been my life as a military spouse and mom for the last two decades. Amid the chaos, I decided to toss the pursuit of publishing into the mix. Crazy, right? Through it all–the constant unpacking and repacking, the juggling of parenting duties, and the pursuit of writing books–I learned some valuable lessons, especially about the lurking beast called burnout.

What Burnout Has Taught Me

Your family is the work, not a hindrance to the work. It might sound counterintuitive, but your family is not an obstacle standing between you and your work; they are the work. Understand the season of life you’re in. Are your kids in their formative years? Are you contemplating retirement after a long career? Prioritize the season over the goals. Your family is the heartbeat of your life; and the work will always be there, waiting.

Do one thing at a time. Now, let’s talk about the temptation to do it all at once: build a platform, launch a podcast, and pitch a book simultaneously. Seriously, just don’t. The art of sustainable success lies in pacing yourself. Start by writing and engaging an audience. Grow this audience with consistent time and investment. Then, and only then, consider diving into the world of writing a book. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither should your literary empire.

Work from a place of rest in the Lord. In the whirlwind of deadlines, promotions, and parenting duties, it’s easy to neglect the rest found in God’s Word and the quiet moments spent in His company. If your pursuit of success has become a blur and your relationship with God has taken a back seat, it’s time to reassess. If you’re too busy for a relationship with God, your priorities have skewed dangerously.

In the pursuit of publishing, it’s easy to get lost in the noise, to let the goals overshadow the season of life you’re in. Burnout is a real threat, but it can be sidestepped with mindful choices. Your family is your foundation, not a roadblock. Pacing yourself is a virtue, and spiritual rest is nonnegotiable.

Let’s make a pact to pursue our goals with passion but not at the expense of our well-being or the wellness of those we love. The journey may be challenging, but finding harmony amid the chaos is the true art of conquering burnout.

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What Do You Do When Your Technology Fails?

By Steve Laubeon March 25, 2024
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Today, I tell the story of an author’s tragedy. We had a client who lost their entire manuscript the day of their deadline. Poof. It was gone. Their thumb drive malfunctioned too; it was empty. Because they had borrowed a laptop, the author didn’t know it was programmed to empty the trash each time it was rebooted. The author had moved the manuscript to the trash after emailing it to …

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Category: Book Business, Career, Technology, The Writing LifeTag: Book Business, Career, Technology, The Writing Life

The Unpredictable God

By Dan Balowon March 21, 2024
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I spent most of my early years being told everything was predictable and orderly. If I lived a certain way or did something in a specific way, there was a guaranteed outcome consistent with my original plan. Even God was pressed into the predictability mix. Anyone who follows the Ten Commandments and does everything the Bible requires will live long and prosper. God always worked in logical, …

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Category: Book Business, The Writing Life

A Writer’s Lorica

By Bob Hostetleron March 14, 2024
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Today is St. Patrick’s Day, which tradition marks as the day of his death. Some mark the day with parades, drinking, and other festivities. I think it’s a great day for prayer, especially for writers, since the famous prayer known as “St. Patrick’s Lorica” (or “breastplate”) is attributed to him. I’ve adapted the prayer numerous times (for my children, grandchildren, etc.), so here is “A Writer’s …

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Category: Creativity, The Writing Life, Theology

Saving Time

By Steve Laubeon March 11, 2024
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Yesterday, most North Americans set their clocks forward an hour as part of Daylight Saving Time (DST). We, in Arizona, are one of two states that never change our clocks. Thus, half the year, we are on Mountain Time, and the other half, we are on Pacific Time. Those of you who lost an hour yesterday either went to church an hour early or showed up bleary-eyed for losing that extra hour of sleep. …

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Category: The Writing LifeTag: daylight saving time

People Over Platform: The Heartbeat of Authentic Authorship

By Megan Brownon March 7, 2024
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Let’s talk about something that’s been the elephant in the room for many of us–the dreaded “P” word: platform. In the realm of publishing, it seems like everyone is fixated on the numbers: how many followers you have, the size of your email list, or the reach of your social-media presence. But what if I told you there’s a more authentic and meaningful approach …

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Category: Marketing, Platform, The Writing Life

Successful Authors Know a Thing or Two

By Dan Balowon March 6, 2024
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Becoming an author is like starting your own business. And, like any business, entrepreneurs research and familiarize themselves with the business environment for the category they work in. Furthermore, successful businesspeople never stop learning about the category in which they work. It’s a lifelong pursuit. Or at least until they move on to something else to focus on and become an expert in …

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Book Launch Secrets – Free Webinar, March 7

By Steve Laubeon March 4, 2024
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Thomas Umstattd, Jr. and I have frequently made this presentation. I don’t want you to miss out. The first 30 days your book is for sale sets the tone for the lifetime of your book. Many physical stores stock new releases for fewer than 90 days. If they don’t sell, they return them to the publisher. If they sell out, the bookstores order more. The online store algorithms show books …

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Category: Agents, Book Business, Marketing, The Writing LifeTag: Book Launch

Gentle Criticism

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon February 28, 2024
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First, let me point out how much I appreciate the respect shown by the commenters on my last blog post, “The Difference We Offer.” I appreciate the healthy dialogue and always look forward to reading comments on my posts. If only everyone could be so open-minded and cordial! One of our family stories is about a relative turning up her nose at a sushi plate, declaring, “I don’t like sushi.” “Have …

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Only the Rich Get Published (?)

By Steve Laubeon February 26, 2024
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The title of today’s blog came in a question that was much less confrontational but significant nonetheless. In the context of describing the extremely limited amount of money they could spend on writers conferences, online classes, training materials, etc., the writer summarized by asking, “How can an unknown writer with very limited resources expect to get their writing published?” This is a …

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Category: Career, Conferences, Get Published, The Writing LifeTag: Get Published
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