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Gentle Criticism

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon February 28, 2024
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First, let me point out how much I appreciate the respect shown by the commenters on my last blog post, “The Difference We Offer.” I appreciate the healthy dialogue and always look forward to reading comments on my posts.

If only everyone could be so open-minded and cordial! One of our family stories is about a relative turning up her nose at a sushi plate, declaring, “I don’t like sushi.”

“Have you ever tried it?”

“No.” Her chuckle sounded both sheepish and unpleasant. As far as we know, she still hasn’t tried sushi.

How do you know you don’t like anything you’ve never tried? Some may not like raw seafood, but much sushi is cooked. Other types are fashioned only from vegetables. Unless you have an allergy, eliminating an entire food category without tasting it doesn’t make sense.

The same can be said of bibliophiles who disparage or refuse to read specific categories of books. Declaring, “I hate all Western novels,” or “I despise all biographies,” without exploring any titles isn’t a good look. Besides, a reader can try ten novels but not gain respect and love for a genre until trying book #11. You may need only to find the plot/author/writing combination that appeals to you.

Because romance novelists are fantastic people, some readers feel they can poke fun, no matter how many copies are sold. Many mockers haven’t read the first book in the genre, yet they enjoy disparaging romance authors.

Holding a negative opinion about a book or a genre is okay. But if you feel you must share your opinion, be tender. When I was still writing books, I went to a conference that focused on nonfiction. The directors kindly allowed authors to display and sell their books. I was happy with my table of romance novels. Then, an old woman told me, “Those are fantasies.”

Since I was young, unprepared for such a harsh assessment, and stupid at the time, I replied, “No, they’re not! I have a wonderful husband. I stay home with my children.”

“It’s nice to have a cash cow.” She moved away before I had a chance to respond.

Cash cow? I’ve never thought of my husband as a cash cow and never will. Her remark said much more about her than it ever could about me. We can only pray for such bitter people

Soon after, I heard a similar opinion from a friend, expressed in an entirely different manner. “It’s hard for me to read romance novels because my marriage has been difficult and not romantic at all.” Her insight made me feel compassion for her and not upset by her opinion as a reader. What a difference!

As a reader, please remember:

1. Attacking authors is not the right way to vent your anger with life.

2. You will not like every book you read.

3. Publishing is challenging. Writers don’t need unsolicited negative opinions.

4. If an author asks your opinion and it’s negative, be truthful, but helpful and specific.

5. Point out at least one good aspect of the book; or say, “I’m grateful you write for the Lord.”

6. Never resort to personal insults.

7. Praise is always appreciated.

May you enjoy the book you are reading today!

 

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Category: The Writing Life

Only the Rich Get Published (?)

By Steve Laubeon February 26, 2024
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The title of today’s blog came in a question that was much less confrontational but significant nonetheless. In the context of describing the extremely limited amount of money they could spend on writers conferences, online classes, training materials, etc., the writer summarized by asking, “How can an unknown writer with very limited resources expect to get their writing published?” This is a …

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Category: Career, Conferences, Get Published, The Writing LifeTag: Get Published

A Writer’s Prayer of Lament

By Bob Hostetleron February 15, 2024
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A few months ago, the leaders of the West Coast Christian Writers Conference had the poor judgment to allow me to teach and meet with conferees. In one of the preconference sessions, I invited attendees to lament the struggles and wounds of the writing-for-publication process, following the form the psalmists often employed. Several were willing to share their efforts and one—Judy Parker—even gave …

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Category: Inspiration, The Writing Life, Theology

Mistakes to Avoid at Your First Writers Conference With Dan Balow

By Thomas Umstattd, Jr.on February 13, 2024
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Writers conferences play a key role in most authors’ careers. Often, a conference is a transformative event that helps an author transition from hobbyist to professional or provides an opportunity for a connection that makes a huge difference. Unfortunately, some authors have unproductive experiences at conferences, especially if it’s their first one. It’s unfortunate because …

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Category: The Writing Life

Examining Your Motive: A Crucial Step in Your Writing Journey

By Megan Brownon February 7, 2024
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You’ve decided to embark on the thrilling, yet challenging, journey of writing and publishing a book. Congratulations! You’re about to dive into a world of creativity; perseverance; and, let’s be honest, a fair share of self-discovery. As a Christian communicator and agent, I often find myself surrounded by aspiring authors eager to master the intricacies of the publishing …

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Category: Pitching, The Writing Life

For Authors With an LLC

By Steve Laubeon February 5, 2024
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If you have ever read Franz Kafka’s novel The Castle, you know the frustration of the main character trying to cut through the endless bureaucracy of the local village. There are times when we, in America, feel the same about our government’s endless need to generate new laws and paperwork. I have recommended that authors who are generating income and also need to write off expenses …

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Category: Book Business, The Writing Life

Wisdom From an AI Literary Agent

By Bob Hostetleron January 31, 2024
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AI (artificial intelligence) is here to stay. I’m told that using an AI engine, you can paint a picture, create a spreadsheet formula, write a term paper, research a character or setting, and even—believe it or not—compose a blog post. (See where I’m going with this?) So I decided to try it. After all, how hard can it be? Here, with no changes, is what AI produced when I asked it to “write a blog …

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Category: Agents, The Writing Life

Refresh and Revise

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon January 25, 2024
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Now that you’ve had time to settle in for 2024 and break most of your New Year’s resolutions, here’s a checklist for your website and ideas for electronic decluttering. I’m working along with you.  New Author Websites  If you are a new author, do you have a website? If not, I recommend creating one while you finish your book and before you query agents. In my office, we …

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Category: The Writing Life

Letting Go of Made-Up Deadlines: The Art of Patient Progress in Writing

By Megan Brownon January 18, 2024
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Hey, fellow wordsmiths! Let’s talk about something we all seem to struggle with: those self-imposed deadlines that we believe will catapult us into the publishing stratosphere. I get it; we’re hungry, we’re driven, and we’ve got stories burning within us. But, my friends, there’s a fine line between ambition and self-sabotage. So, grab your favorite writing beverage …

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Category: The Writing Life

A Year in Review: A Look Back at 2023

By Steve Laubeon January 15, 2024
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It is always a good idea to reflect on the previous year. As those who follow Jesus Christ, we are pressed because the lost world around us is being crushed by the enemy called sin. And yet we should still count our blessings (and as the hymn reads, “name them one by one”). The goodness of God remains unchanged despite attempts to proclaim otherwise. The following is an attempt to review some …

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