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The Paranoid’s Guide to Things That Are Out to Get You

By Dan Balowon May 6, 2014
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This is the second in a three-part series on attitudes, specifically for people in publishing, but probably applicable to just about anyone. Two months ago I addressed the issue of pessimism. Today, we’ll talk about the first cousin of pessimism…fear.

If a book were to be written about fear, it would be the titled something along the lines of this blog-post. It would be a short volume with dozens of lists of those things that will make you afraid. No explanations are provided why you should be afraid of them, just lists of everything that someone has been afraid of at some point. The subtitle would be “Is that noise coming from the closet?”

Theologically speaking we are reminded by Jesus himself that we shouldn’t fear things of this earth, only those things that can affect your soul, because God knows that Satan is able to use fears to paralyze even the strongest among us.

Politics, relationships, driving a car, schools, spiders, the air we breathe and the food we eat have fear attached, whether real or imagined.  If you don’t believe me, just watch TV news for five minutes. There’s an entire segment of the entertainment industry (movies, television and books) spawning fear if you don’t have enough of it already.

Authors and aspiring authors can easily fall prey to fear.

Spending a lot of time creating something all for naught.

Bad reviews.

And dozens more. There’s probably a chapter of the above-referenced book especially for authors.  Fear can paralyze an otherwise optimistic, creative mind.

So what can we do? We don’t replace fear with some sort of mindless positive thinking that convinces us we can do anything, but through prayer, preparation, training and practice, we replace fear with confidence that we did our part and the rest is out of our control.

Sports Analogy Alert – A basketball player knows he/she can make free-throws at the end of a close game because they made that shot a hundred times a day in practice, so they get up the line and let it fly. If they make it, great. If they don’t, they did everything they could. Disappointed, but not defeated.

I’ve often wondered if creative paralysis and burnout for authors is rooted in the false premise that they are responsible for the results that come from your work.

In reality, publishing is one of the most complicated and multi-faceted endeavors on this planet. Success or failure in publishing is never easily attributed to one thing.  It is always a combination of many factors, most of them out of the control of an author.

Spiritually speaking, are you called to share your faith and convert people? No.  The former is your God-powered privilege and the latter is the function of God alone.  You do your part and leave the fruit to God.

Here are some steps to defeating fear in the life of an author:

  1. Look up…every day to the source of all your hope, creativity and inspiration.
  2. Look down…at your work and keep writing, growing and learning.
  3. Give up…the responsibility for the results that only God controls.

How do you fight fear in your writing life?

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Category: Book Business, Career, Dan, TheologyTag: Career, Fear

The Big Just Got Bigger – HarperCollins Buys Harlequin

By Steve Laubeon May 5, 2014
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by Steve Laube Today’s Cinco de Mayo celebration should be renamed Cinco de Grande. Last week’s news that HarperCollins is buying Harlequin caused quite a stir in the industry. It had long been wondered if current owner Torstar, a Canadian media company that owns a number of properties, would do something with Harlequin. The primary reason is that each of the past four years has seen a …

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Category: Book Business, TrendsTag: Book Business, Trends

The Writer’s Pod

By Karen Ballon April 30, 2014
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When I was at the Mount Hermon Writers’ Conference a week or so ago, I went to one of my all-time favorite places: The Santa Cruz Wharf. It’s one of the best places to see the sea lions, which are draped all over the pilings of the wharf, as well as swimming and playing in the water around it. A few years ago, I saw something I’d never seen before. A group of sea lions all floating together. Come …

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Category: Career, Communication, Conferences, Creativity, Karen, Platform, The Writing LifeTag: Community, Conferences, The Writing Life

Grace is Amazing, But Hard to Explain

By Dan Balowon April 29, 2014
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I am not a Bible theologian, so today’s blog is pushing me way out on the plank over the pitching seas of exegetical danger, so I apologize for offending those with seminary degrees and those who are infinitely better qualified to write on this subject.  As a friend stated in regard to another situation, I am indeed hanging heavy weights on thin threads. I believe that one of the most difficult …

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Category: Dan, Personal, TheologyTag: Christian, Grace, Theology

My Most Frequently Used Reference Book

By Steve Laubeon April 28, 2014
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by Steve Laube After pulling down this book from my shelf twice this past week I realized there is no other reference book I use more frequently. The book? The Synonym Finder by J.I. Rodale. I prefer it over Roget’s Thesaurus because it is laid out logically – in alphabetical order. There are multiple occasions where I need an alternative word to the one I’m trying to use. So I …

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Category: Book Review, Craft, Creativity, Personal, Reading, Steve, Writing CraftTag: Book Review, Craft, Creativity

Fun Fridays – April 25, 2014

By Steve Laubeon April 25, 2014
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Clever. Funny. Entertaining. What a great performance! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BKezUd_xw20 Thanks to Dan Balow for the tip!

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Success! Are You Ready?

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon April 24, 2014
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Recently one of our faithful readers asked, since there are so many blogs about handling failure, if I would write a blog on how to handle success. Here are a few of my thoughts, in no particular order: Once you are successful, prepare to… …be gracious. Whether you struggled for years to be published or if you’ve never heard the word “no” from an agent or editor, when …

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Category: Book Business, Career, Money, Platform, Tamela, Writing CraftTag: Career, Success

Generally Speaking, Think of Someone in Particular

By Dan Balowon April 22, 2014
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  Any mode of communication requires an audience to justify itself.  Even someone shouting on a street corner will have someone hear them, if even in passing. An audience of one only goes so far. While everyone talks to themselves, if you do it too much, you will end up talking to a psychiatrist.  However, there are benefits of talking to yourself. Comedian George Carlin once said, “The …

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Category: Branding, Communication, Dan, Platform, Writing CraftTag: Audience, Communication

A Forty Day Experiment with Music

By Steve Laubeon April 21, 2014
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by Steve Laube I tried something new this year. During the 40 days prior to Easter, also known as Lent, I chose to listen to one and only one CD while driving in my car. From March 5th to April 20th the only music playing was “Lent at Ephesus,” the #1 bestselling Classical Music album of the year. This means during that period I heard this music at least thirty times from start to …

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Category: Creativity, Personal, SteveTag: Creativity, music

It Takes a Committee

By Tamela Hancock Murrayon April 17, 2014
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One well-known and frustrating fact about seeing a book finally accepted is the looooooong process. Trust me, literary agents would like to see the process move faster, too. Believe it or not, the fact that at most large publishers, a proposal must go through several rounds of review before a contract is offered is actually good for the author. Yes, you read that right. It’s good for the …

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Category: Agency, Book Business, Career, Get Published, TamelaTag: Career, Editors, publishers
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